I got to hold her for the first time!

I finally got to hold my baby for almost 30 minutes, that was the best feeling I’ve ever had. 32 days left to go until she’s home!

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That’s amazing! I’m a mama to 2 boys who were Preemie babies
(born separately) and I can completely relate to you! It’s so hard to have to leave the hospital without your baby.
It’s the best feeling when you get to hold them for the 1st time! Congratulations on your sweet baby 🎀💗🌸

How many weeks were you when you had her?

I just read through your profile! She was born at 32 weeks! That’s definitely hard! My oldest was born at 33 weeks so I definitely understand what your going through. I’m 32 weeks right now with my 1st daughter and hoping I can make it to 35 weeks. But it’s amazing how far technology has come. Preemie babies have so much care available to them now.

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First of all, congratulations! And yeah🥳🥳🥳, for your first cuddles!!! I have my little boy in NICU. He is a week old today, born at 29+4, so I fell your excitement for that first cuddle. It's so nice you have a date for your little girl to come home. ❤❤❤

So hard, you are super mom! Sending hugs and positive vibes

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