Fiance got into an accident and his ex showed up at the hospital and made a scene
So my fiance was taken to a different hospital after a hit and run tonight, and he hasn’t been here in several years so his emergency contact info was still his ex, who is absolutely crazy. She showed up, and she lives closer so she got here first and was let back. When I got here, they tried to get her out and she flipped out. She had to be escorted out and was smashing shit, calling him a pussy and saying he has no balls, and screaming that I’m a cry baby bitch (I wasn’t even crying).
I’m honestly just worried, and didn’t have the energy for her, so I told her I understand she’s worried and if she could be civil, she could stay. She told me to go home and said he belongs to her and always will and I’m just an obstacle in their path to forever.
She was making threats down the hall to call my job and get me fired. Saying I use my child to manipulate my boyfriend into loving me. And he repeatedly kept telling her that their relationship is not what is important right now. So she ended up being forced to leave, and now she’s sitting outside our house while I’m still in the trauma unit waiting to hear more.
My fiance is literally in trauma from a hit and run, and she’s worried about who he loves more. Her or his current fiance.
Husband doesn’t last long 😩
Since becoming pregnant, we haven’t been intimate as much as we used too, and obviously since having our LO it’s difficult (we have a bad sleeper) so we’re both tired and don’t have energy. However, he is in the mood more than I am. I feel like when we do have sex, it literally lasts less than a minute - then I think what’s the point lol. I understand because we don’t do it that often, it’s probably be the reason, so we’ve tried doing it more often and it still doesn’t make a difference.
We tried foreplay more, but it also doesn’t make a difference, as when we do come to have sex, it’s over even quicker.
Venting or after advice??? Who knows, just fed up 🥲
