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Tubal Ligation

I'm 46 years old childfree by choice. I have a tubal scheduled for June 27th. I have a very active sex life now. For the women who have had a tubal how long did it take to feel like having sex again. Any post op surgery suggestions would be appreciated.

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I am 27. Got my tubal ligation done in November of 2019. My youngest was born Sept 2019.
I honestly DO NOT have a sex drive at all. For many reasons. But I don't feel the need 80% of the time. I'm either too tired from everything, back is sore or legs from doing too much/exercise/etc. Mind you I haven't gotten my hormones checked or anything lately. It's on my list of things to check to get it back.

I had one removed in 2010 and the other removed in 2021 (during a C-section) my post op from 2010 wasn’t bad at all. You can’t even see the scars anymore. I was uncomfortable for about a week but nothing debilitating past the first day. The worst part was expelling the gas they pump your belly with so they can see. My 2021 procedure was different because it was a C-section. I’ve had no complications. My periods are less painful now but other than that no change and I’ve had no change to my sex drive either.

Not even a week… I had zero pain.

i had a tubal at 34 after the birth of my son im now 45 my sex drive is higher than ever. i felt pain or cramping for a week or so but then again i also had had a baby. they went in through my bellybutton while was put under

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