Hello new people! How’s everyone?

My second is going to be another boy too, and I’m battling the same! Plus frustrating reactions from some family members about their disappointment it’s not a girl. This will be my mother in law’s fourth grandson, and in a group chat where my husband said “it’s a wee boy☺️,” she responded, “Are you f*cking kidding me?????” I kid you not.

oh my gosh no! That’s a wild reaction! How rude 😮 Sorry you had that! I’d have wanted to say some very rude things in response 😅

People have just assumed we’d be disappointed which is so mad - we’ve even had people ask if we’re gonna try for a girl next - like, this baby hasn’t even been born and you’re assuming we’re not happy with him?! So done with it. Humans!

I’m still so angry - I never responded to that comment. I think she partly thought she was being funny. But I will never forget how bad this response made me feel. Maybe someday I’ll tell her.😅

Omg I have felt that assumption in people too! As if a family can’t be complete with only boys. So a woman should keep putting her body through this intense physical experience until she has a girl? What if the third’s also a boy? Drives me mad too! Glad it’s not just me xx