Child Support

I need any and all tips on what I can do about child support. Child was born in Arizona, but both parents reside in Nevada. He admitted that it’s his, although we would still probably need a DNA test. Does the court pay for that, will I have to pay for it? Should I get a lawyer? I literally have no idea what to do but he told me he wanted a relationship with his son but everytime we made plans for him to come see him, it was excuse after excuse as to why he can’t. It’s been about 3 weeks since I’ve heard from him last. He wasn’t there at all during the pregnancy. He doesn’t even have a job, so is it even worth it to take him to court? I just don’t want him thinking he can get away from his responsibilities. My son deserves a better life and I cannot give him that if I have no money for daycare or a sitter so I can go to work. Please. Any advice. Prayers and well wishes appreciated too.
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So Nevada is a BIG 50/50 custody state. You can’t apply for anything here in Nevada until you have been here 6 months as that will be when you are considered a resident of Nevada. If he doesn’t have a job then it is likely Nevada will order child support to be at 100-150 a month IF that. Nevada can go off of his old income but you have to have proof however anything at minimum wage or under will be the same amount of 100-150. Nevada is also a 50/50 custody state so all dad has to do is request 50/50 custody at a custody courthouse and it is likely he will get it regardless of age of child or breastfeeding or not.

@Natasha thank you hun. You have no idea how helpful this is. I needed the honest truth. I don’t think I could trust his dad with him to be completely honest. He doesn’t even know how to take care of a baby which is why I was trying to work something out outside of court. I don’t think I’m going to be looking into it now though. That’s not a risk I want to take. I feel like once I’d take him to court, he would try for 50/50 even though he knew I would’ve let him see him and have him once I knew him & I were comfortable with him keeping him without me being there. Thank you so much.

@Ella here’s the thing. He could go to court and request custody rights with DNA testing. Normally judges will allow it. Unfortunately, judges do not care how often or how little either parent has been with the child. In a judge’s eyes how is a parent supposed to learn to be a parent with being monitored and watched. As a woman, are we watched constantly when learning to be a parent? Almost never. Why should a single woman with a child by her ex expect that of her ex? It doesn’t make sense.

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