Hey everyone my baby is 5 months old and I want to reduce/cut screen time as I have read up on how bad it is what activities did people do to keep their baby entertained. Thank you in advance.
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We are a low screen household and at around 5 months I found my son needed lots of 'playing together time'. I would try and split the day up so we do activities throughout - some outside time, a sensory activity/craft type activity, some reading together time and then to encourage free/independent play we had his toys out and would rotate different toys every couple days to spark new interest. Try not to intervene too much as they play with toys and model how you would like to encourage them to spend time, so sit and read a book while they play, cook, clean etc You can also move toys around the room or set them up differently. You can still do some screen time but can set limits, opt for slow moving, low stimulus shows, we also prefer shows where they speak correctly. We looked for our sons individual dopamine overload (around 20mins) at which point if he continues watching, his behaviour changes. This will be different for each child. If it's songs or music play it via audio only or sing together.

I know all babies are different and admittedly mine were 'easy' babies
My best tip would honestly be just involve them in your life and the mundane - it's not mundane to them it's new and with you and thry don't know the difference between play and 'housework' . It's all with you
Put them in their high chair/boucer and let them watch you wash pots. Blow a few bubbles on them when older
Play peekaboo when youre in the shower - we have a glass that steams up then i wipe it
I sing lots and make up songs with their name . Narrate the day. E.g 'so we'll hoover up and then we'll go for a walk, what will we see' . Honestly, i just make stuff up- it gets easier and feels more natural more you do it
Tuppaware - my youngest has loads of toys but that's his favourite while i'm tidying the kitchen or cooking 🙈
When that little , i used to book one organised activity a day e.g baby sensory, library time. Look for free or low cost stuff too
Get them wet or get outside. Deep baking tray with random objects in

Obviously, I get it if your baby is crying but they really don't need entertaining as such, nor do children. Don't feel guilty for not making life 'interesting'. Sorry if this comes across as lecturing - i just know it's easy to fall into the trap of feeling like you're not entertaining your baby and that that will affect development.
Long term - boredom is where their imagination is allowed to blossom and something in today's world our children are not experiencing much
We got those little rattle toys for wrists and legs at that age - i remember they enjoyed them
A foil blanket from first aid kits - hours of rustly entertainment. Add a couple of random objects or something flashy

Thank you I love this! - I didn’t post the original post but wanted to look back at comment and this is very helpful!
I just feel so fucking agitated at the moment. I have 2 under 2 and one of them is autistic. So we have daily meltdowns etc. I'm up at 6am every day and don't sit down till maybe 10pm. I'm doing absolutely everything for them & the only break I get is going to the gym but I'm out for an hour max. As soon as I'm home I'm straight back at it, I don't even have time to shower.
My partners great but I don't think he has any fucking idea just how hard it is being with 2 small kids every minute of the day, managing appointments & the house. I'm starting to resent him. I'm snappy & miserable.
I resent my dog. He stinks & keeps malting everywhere. He's old so keeps shitting in the house.
The kids have kicked off for me all morning, yet as soon as he's here its calm & I look dramatic.
I'm not enjoying being a mum cos I can't cope with the constant stress. I've got adhd and autism so I'm overstimulated very quickly.
I've had ENOUGH.
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What snack ideas would you have for a 19 month old that will keep her entertained on a 9 hour flight and will fit in these little compartments? Will take more of course.

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Almost 4 months pp with 2 under 2...i wanna jump his bones, lick his neck, rub his back to his crack (with shea butter), suck him to sleep, make him moan when i see him doing anything like cleaning, buys my pads, changing diapers, talking with me, sleeping, walking around... Existing.
Ugh been together for 8 years & married for 4. Hes a rock, my blessing & the love of my life...
Anyone else feel like that about their person?
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My toddler is strong willed. He knows what he wants and how he wants it.
Not all communication styles work with a strong willed child.
Any who, about 60 percent of the time when I pick him up from nursery they complain about his behaviour and him not listening. He is fricken 2 and half years old!
Before nursery he never had behavioural issues.
Any who I worry now they are putting this constant though in his mind that he is a bad kid.
He would say things like I'm not going to be a godo boy. Etc.
I got into an argument with my partner about reducing the days. Or even changing the nursery in general.
Am I over reacting?
What would you recommend?
I just remember being younger at schools and teachers constantly shouting or telling off the same kid. Putting this perception in there head that they are naughty, less than. I worry that this can be causing damage. Am I over reacting?
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Looking for some way to get the chaos under control here 🥲
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