Thongs / Sexy undies to work?

My husband has an issue with me wearing sexy undies to work. Yesterday, I wore a thong for the first time in years because I'm just tired of my panty line showing 🙃 and oh my gosh he was very unhappy. He says that if he's not happy about it then I wouldn't do it. I should wear it at home. He says things like " men can tell I'm wearing a thong. " I don't respect him because I wear it to work, and he does not like etc. I just can't believe that it bothers him so much. I told him if I feel the need to wear it outside the house I will. It's not every time I want my panty line showing. I literally have less than 4 thongs, and only one Yesterday in years. No one sees under my clothes, so what's the issue. Please give me some advice on this? Who's wrong in this situation?

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Some of us wear only thongs, they don’t have to be deemed “sexy underwear” especially if their a daily wear.

Honestly, I think hes got some insecurities to work through, and thats a him problem. Nip that and quick, ugly behaviour.

This is so close the breastfeeding is cheating bollocks. If its under your clothes whats the damn problem 😭 Thats a very very insecure man.

I only wear thongs, I can’t stand normal underwear lmao, I am 19 tho so

That is completely absurd, immature, and WAY too controlling. His reaction is a massive red flag and a sign of some serious insecurity on his part. He needs to work through his issues, this has nothing to do with you and your right to wear whatever underwear you want. In my opinion, having an obvious panty line is MORE distracting and less professional in a work environment. That’s literally why thongs exist—to make it so that you can’t see your underwear through your clothes.

When I wear something sexy, the only response I get from my husband is him telling me how sexy I look and maybe him grabbing me and giving me an extra long kiss before I head out. He trusts me and knows he’s the only person I want to be with, so he hypes me up and encourages me to dress however makes me feel the best.

It sounds like your husband is wildly insecure, and he needs to check that

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Fed UP

I just feel so fucking agitated at the moment. I have 2 under 2 and one of them is autistic. So we have daily meltdowns etc. I'm up at 6am every day and don't sit down till maybe 10pm. I'm doing absolutely everything for them & the only break I get is going to the gym but I'm out for an hour max. As soon as I'm home I'm straight back at it, I don't even have time to shower.

My partners great but I don't think he has any fucking idea just how hard it is being with 2 small kids every minute of the day, managing appointments & the house. I'm starting to resent him. I'm snappy & miserable.

I resent my dog. He stinks & keeps malting everywhere. He's old so keeps shitting in the house.

The kids have kicked off for me all morning, yet as soon as he's here its calm & I look dramatic.

I'm not enjoying being a mum cos I can't cope with the constant stress. I've got adhd and autism so I'm overstimulated very quickly.

I've had ENOUGH.

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Thongs / Sexy undies to work?

My husband has an issue with me wearing sexy undies to work. Yesterday, I wore a thong for the first time in years because I'm just tired of my panty line showing 🙃 and oh my gosh he was very unhappy. He says that if he's not happy about it then I wouldn't do it. I should wear it at home. He says things like " men can tell I'm wearing a thong. " I don't respect him because I wear it to work, and he does not like etc. I just can't believe that it bothers him so much. I told him if I feel the need to wear it outside the house I will. It's not every time I want my panty line showing. I literally have less than 4 thongs, and only one Yesterday in years. No one sees under my clothes, so what's the issue. Please give me some advice on this? Who's wrong in this situation?

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