Hello mamas,could I get some advice please with how and what to wean as started this week with my baby but not really what to give and when what time day. Have started with puree vegetables and making them myself and offering it in the evening to my baby but she tends to get irritated and tired and has a few spoonfulls and then gives up and has a meltdown. So I’m questioning myself am I feeding her wrong time of day and what’s best to mix the food with milk or baby rice please.
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Do it in the morning or lunch, we find morning the best time personally. Last wake window of the day is generally the hardest due to he so tired x

Main tip is don’t when she’s to hungry or too tired.
But also it’s a big new thing! It takes them a while to pick it up. I gave my daughter a piece of tender stem broccoli last night and she LOVED it, chewing away, turning it around, trying the other end. She ingested precisely 0% of it, it was like I’d given her a teether. They’ve got to learn

I read to start only give max two teaspoons, after they’ve had a bottle I usually wait an hour after milk. Mine like purées but don’t eat the actual bits of food yet just squish it in their hands

With my little one it worked to do something in the morning and evening - I started with offering her baby rice mixed with her milk about 2 hours after her morning bottle which worked a treat for her as it’s a familiar taste! And then I did her second meal during her second to last wake window and offered her a puréed version of the chosen vegetable mixed with her milk to start to get her used to the flavors and then also offered her the whole vegetable to hold and chew on! Has worked really well for her so far and she’s already very used to the routine :)

General advice is 30-60 mins after a milk feed because milk is their main source of nutrients. I usually offer it in the early part of the day so it’s not too heavy on their stomach before sleep. I wouldn’t fight it if you can see she’s tired x

Breakfast or lunch is likely to be a lot easier than the evening. I would offer finger foods as well as puree as some babies just aren't keen on purees. It may also help to manage your expectations. At this age a few spoonfuls is a good amount!

I found breakfast time the easiest and I do an hour after milk feed. There will be days they won’t want anything and days they want everything.
All I will say is follow babies cues, because my LO went days without being interested in food and I thought I would try letting him feed himself and he loves it and so engaged. I also started finger foods and he is now getting on great.
At this age it really is about learning and not actually eating the food.
My LO will be 7 months in a few weeks and he has only now actually started properly eating the spoonfuls.
With added mini soya chunks and sweetcorn

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I just feel so fucking agitated at the moment. I have 2 under 2 and one of them is autistic. So we have daily meltdowns etc. I'm up at 6am every day and don't sit down till maybe 10pm. I'm doing absolutely everything for them & the only break I get is going to the gym but I'm out for an hour max. As soon as I'm home I'm straight back at it, I don't even have time to shower.
My partners great but I don't think he has any fucking idea just how hard it is being with 2 small kids every minute of the day, managing appointments & the house. I'm starting to resent him. I'm snappy & miserable.
I resent my dog. He stinks & keeps malting everywhere. He's old so keeps shitting in the house.
The kids have kicked off for me all morning, yet as soon as he's here its calm & I look dramatic.
I'm not enjoying being a mum cos I can't cope with the constant stress. I've got adhd and autism so I'm overstimulated very quickly.
I've had ENOUGH.
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So, my boyfriend and I have a son together.and usually he doesn’t mind buying him things he needs like diapers and wipes etc…but recently he won’t get him anything that he needs. So when my son runs out we end up in an argument and he gets upset that he has to leave at 3 in the morning to get whatever it is my son needs when I told him days before he was almost out. I would get them myself but he doesn’t let me work because “he wants to take care of his family”. What should I do or say?
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My husband has an issue with me wearing sexy undies to work. Yesterday, I wore a thong for the first time in years because I'm just tired of my panty line showing 🙃 and oh my gosh he was very unhappy. He says that if he's not happy about it then I wouldn't do it. I should wear it at home. He says things like " men can tell I'm wearing a thong. " I don't respect him because I wear it to work, and he does not like etc. I just can't believe that it bothers him so much. I told him if I feel the need to wear it outside the house I will. It's not every time I want my panty line showing. I literally have less than 4 thongs, and only one Yesterday in years. No one sees under my clothes, so what's the issue. Please give me some advice on this? Who's wrong in this situation?
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Im so frustrated because it seems like all my fiance can do is grab at my body and try to f*ck 24/7 like can they ever talk about anything else?! Its making me not want to be around him anymore.

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My toddler is strong willed. He knows what he wants and how he wants it.
Not all communication styles work with a strong willed child.
Any who, about 60 percent of the time when I pick him up from nursery they complain about his behaviour and him not listening. He is fricken 2 and half years old!
Before nursery he never had behavioural issues.
Any who I worry now they are putting this constant though in his mind that he is a bad kid.
He would say things like I'm not going to be a godo boy. Etc.
I got into an argument with my partner about reducing the days. Or even changing the nursery in general.
Am I over reacting?
What would you recommend?
I just remember being younger at schools and teachers constantly shouting or telling off the same kid. Putting this perception in there head that they are naughty, less than. I worry that this can be causing damage. Am I over reacting?
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