I wanna know why are men so damn h*rny ?! đŸ€Ź

Im so frustrated because it seems like all my fiance can do is grab at my body and try to f*ck 24/7 like can they ever talk about anything else?! Its making me not want to be around him anymore.

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Girl, I get being annoyed if you’ve asked him to chill, but imagine the opposite problem, your fiancĂ© never touched you, never initiated anything, and seemed completely uninterested in you. 😭 Being desired by the person you’re engaged to is not a bad thing. Maybe the issue is finding a balance, not wishing he wasn’t attracted to you. There are definitely healthier ways to express attraction, but having a fiancĂ© who is still crazy attracted to you isn’t exactly the worst problem to have 😂 I’d personally rather communicate about boundaries than take his attraction as a reason to not want him around.

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I'm sorry you're feeling like that! It definitely sucks feeling touched out, especially if you're still healing. But I think a good talk with your fiancee would be a good place to start. I think what we feel, as women and mothers, is so unimaginable for men. They just have no idea what we go through. And many men might think it's only the physical healing aspect after birth, but it can be so much more. For me it helped a lot when I described to my husband exactly what I was feeling - tired, lack of energy, touched out, no libido, just not in a good place for frequent sex. I definitely saw his interest as a compliment 😂 but for a while, I just wasn't there, and that's okay. I'm sure your partner will want to support you in any way he can, and communication has to be the first step.
Hope everything works out!

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It’s so bloody annoying isn’t it! Sometimes I daren’t show affection in case he wants it!

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Wish mine was like this !!

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So are you dumping the loser or just gonna keep co.plaining about his to strangers? He obviously doesn't respect the relationship and only see/wants you for sending, so why are you tolerating it?

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I think more women need to like their husbands, and I say this because all I see over any type of social media is the absolute hatred of men showing affection/interest in their wife.

The day my husband walks by me without slapping my ass or copping a feel I’d be patiently waiting to be delivered divorce papers.. because clearly he doesn’t like me anymore 😂

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I completely relate to this! I love my husband and we had been married 5 years before we had our first child and now 7 years with a new baby. He has never been so h*rny. It makes me feel insecure about my sex drive. Luckily he has started to chill out but it's a little too much.

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Im so frustrated because it seems like all my fiance can do is grab at my body and try to f*ck 24/7 like can they ever talk about anything else?! Its making me not want to be around him anymore.

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