Que Se Hace?

Hola a todas! Cuando tu esposo se enoja contigo por algo que hiciste. Sabes lo que quiere automaticamente? ¿Sabes si te quiere cerca o quiere que le muestres amor? Deberian los hombres decirnos como debemos ser y actuar con ellos cuando estan enojados con nosotros o se supone que ya lo debemos saber? Tu que haces cuando tu esposo esta enojado contigo?

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Si no tuve nada que ver aunque el diga que si... Lo ignoro.... Es su cabeza y no fui yo...

Si yo tuve que ver realmente... Solo una disculpa 🙏 trato de resolverlo y si la acepta bien y si no también... Ya no dejo que su emoción 🤷🏼‍♀️ me haga daño..

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si si tuviste que ver, aun te acercas, por ejemplo cariños o lo dejas hasta que el se acerque a ti?

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La verdad si aún noto su molestia lo deja hasta que el este trankilo y el mismo se acerque... Muchas veces se ha dado cuenta que exagero y el solo me busca... Pero si dejo que el me busque...

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Y yo soy bien cotorra 😉... Muy divertido y lo hago reír ya cuando lo noto más tranquilo... Y si se ríe... Ya pasó y a seguir en lo que sigue todo tiene solución 😜

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Mi esposo se lo guarda todo pero yo me doy cuenta! Y siempre explota y me habla fuerte cuando le hago decirme. Es muy difícil.

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es algo que ya viví 😞 y supe que hay no era donde era feliz, la neurosis es algo q daña mucho más el que ellos guarden y saquen todo de golpe, hasta que nosotras mismas callemos todo siempre lo único que ocasiona es la ruptura de una relación, si ya lo detectaste haz algo platica con el o busquen apoyo. Abrazo tu corazoncito y espero que puedas estar mejor pronto 🫂

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Le doy espacio, hablo poco con él, con un tono tranquilo y después lo habitual

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Creo que el enojo es algo que la mayoría al momento de suceder es un disparador muchas veces también suele pasar que se dicen cosas que muchas veces se dicen que se arrepienten pero ??? No en absoluto lo que se dice estando enojados esa esa es la putita verdad .

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A veces pensar “en frío” te dará respuestas más claras, si tu hiciste algo que a él le molesta, pides disculpas, si el se enoja “solo” y tu ni sabes, puedes preguntarle directamente: hice algo que te haya molestado? Y dependiendo de la respuesta ya sabes qué hacer. Muchas veces las personas aplican maltrato psicológico “te digo que estoy molesto” y hace que la otra persona se la mantenga atrás y al pendiente, causando angustia y muchas cosas más. No alimentes su control, y si crees que eres víctima de este tipo de maltrato te recomiendo buscar ayuda 🫶🏻 un abrazo, espero logres conseguir la fuerza para resolverlo 💕

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Gracias a todas por sus consejos. Este tema es algo con lo que he tratado toda mi vida, mi esposo y yo ahora nos comunicamos mucho mejor, pero llegar a donde estamos ahora ha sido muy difícil. Hay dias en los que parece que no podemos estar en la misma página, pero eventualmente lo resolvemos y lo hacemos mejor.

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Yo aveces sii logro notarlo pero el es muy reservado entonces trato de hablar con el y me lo diga así como yo para poder arreglarlo, claro no es fácil porque le cuesta decirme, el es de alejarnos un momento y después hablar pero me gustaría que en ese aspecto sii lo diga 😅😅

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Help!!!

Am I wrong if I secide to stop doing baths etc for my little ones. We have a 3 and 1 year old. I do all the baths wake up in ams cooking etc. I dont want them to be dirty but it's like I need a break and Im tired of doing it all by myself. He will come up and help after they are out the tub every now and then and that pisses me off. Im taking care of 2 littles one by myself makes no sense. I asked him to give them baths tonight he said I worked all day what did you do...ive had the children all day. We went to church he didn't go. We all know how little ones are.. but what should I do bcus it feels like I'm going crazy

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Partner works incredibly long hours, how much do they help out?

I'm struggling. Have been for a while. I've had one break from parenting my daughter, that was for 3 hours in December when I left her with her dad.

She's 14 months old and I'm just tired. I've done every night by myself. He's out of bed at 4am and doesn't get home until 7-9pm. He drives for work, very physically tiring.
On the weekends he was doing 6 days, one weekend day off, but now has both off.

He doesn't sit on the floor and play with her, he doesn't read to her because he says she doesn't have the patience.
He will pick her up and hold her whilst he's cooking.

Recently I've been "snappy" with him.
He got back from the mechanic last weekend, she was getting onto the sofa and he put his headphones on and started to watch Netflix on his phone.
The same day I told him I was going to run her bath and to watch her whilst she was still eating, he fell asleep on the sofa.

Today he went to football after going shopping, so was out 1-3 and then from 4-8.
He got back and I was snappy.

"I don't get why you're so snappy with me"

I said - Probably because I haven't had a break since December.

"Do you think I don't know you haven't had a break. I haven't had a break", "I just won't go to work, I'll sit at home all day".

Then "do you think I like not having a connection to my child"... But that's on him? He never sits to play with her. He "doesn't see the point". He's stated that this age is boring to him.

Since she's been born, he has been to a friend's once a month. Football - He stopped going for 7months, but has been the last two weekends.

Are these not breaks?

He does do the washing/washing up/cooking/vacuuming when I haven't had a chance to; but I'm the one in charge of feeding her, naps/bedtime, teeth brushing, hair brushing, baths, dressing her, making sure she has the right shoes, appointments etc. Everything falls on me.

If your partner works ridiculously long hours, how much do they look after your child? Do you ever get a break?

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Heartbreak

After years of trying, months of back and fourth on the fate of our marriage, indecision, fights. The whole enchilada my husband and I are separating, divorcing. Whatever. I'm so goddamn heart broken. I feel like it's a death and I'm in mourning. We have a 3 year old son and currently and for the foreseeable we are going to coparent and live together. This makes things harder because neither one of us can really move on but it's how it is. He understands and he's trying to heal too. But I can't understand why now that things are over he can be kind. He's been more amazing in the last week since I ended things than ever. Why couldn't he do that when we were together for years I begged for change, we saw a counselor I tried everything and he just wouldn't. Now he seems to turn a switch and be able to just do it all. But it's too late. My heart aches. My body aches. Love sucks.

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Am I wrong ?

My daughter’s 1st birthday was Thursday and nobody wished her a happy birthday from her dads family but his mom watched his story. Should I put my foot down and set boundaries for them to accept accountability or should I just let them stay on that side for as long as they want and not worry about it?

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Tv good or bad

My 4 month old loves TV shows especially dancing fruits and baby TV is this a good thing or a bad thing at this age?

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Hi mummas! I need help with potty training?

My daughter is 4 years old, she will be turning 5 this November. I’ve tried everything I can think of, to help her and encourage her. I’ve tried bribing, I’ve tried sticker charts, I’ve tried buying her underwear of her choice— nothing. She’s suspected autistic. She will not try. She will sit on the potty at nursery for a few minutes and that’s it! At home, nothing. Any help would be greatly appreciated 🎀✨

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