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Narcissist?

I think my child father may be a narcissist…. If you’ve been with/dealt with a narcissist could you just say the signs or things that he did and how you got out? It’s just small things he does when we argue that make me feel this way. Our last argument was over him liking multiple girl’s pictures after I’ve very clearly stated my feelings and boundaries on it, so I brought it to his attention and he turned it around on me and somethings I did. Later I asked why he wanted to bring up what I did wrong and not speak on it when he seen it and said “ somethings don’t need to be spoken on, sometimes you just need to see how thing play out “ anytime I try to get him to leave he’s always petty always wanting to take what he got me/bought us..

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That’s definitely a manipulator and a narcissist. They always try to hold control and throw you under the bus so it takes the attention off what he’s done and put it on you so he doesn’t have to deal with accountability.

I don’t think there’s enough that’s happened to determine if he’s a narcissist yet, but these are some of the red flags. Fights are complicated because everyone has defensive patterns that can be misconstrued for narcissism. His sounds like deflection. The petty thing about leaving is worrisome though. Make sure he knows you can’t be manipulated by these items. He shouldn’t try to control you and he’ll pay child support either way. 🚩 inflated ego and accomplishments 🚩will try to isolate you from friends and family 🚩once complimented everything you did and now criticizes everything you do 🚩always acts like the hero or the victim 🚩shows no empathy 🚩manipulation to make themselves look like the victim or like the righteous one

Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding.

Everyone has the capability to display narcissistic tendencies, however very few, and I mean very few people actually have narcissistic personality disorder. It’s a word that’s just thrown around these days. It’s more likely just manipulation/defensiveness at not wanting to be called out for shitty behaviour. Which the majority of people do in relationships. If you genuinely want to leave just be the bigger person and let him take what he wants. He’s probably just saying it to be petty anyway

idk about npd since there’s not much to go on plus i’m no expert but he defo does sound manipulative and if you have suspicions, it might be worth speaking to someone who may know better like an expert or a women’s charity etc. in order to figure out what to do, especially if you wanna get away from him

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