🪷Increased squirting/female ejaculation during pregnancy sex & masturbation 🪷

My sex drive during pregnancy has increased dramatically. To my surprise EVERY time I orgasm through sex or masturbation whilst pregnant I squirt!

Before pregnancy it would happen once every so often but it was not a regular occurrence...

So my question is: has anyone else experienced this change during pregnancy?

What is the science behind it - hormones, pelvic position, increased blood flow?

Is it safe to squirt this much/often during pregnancy; at least 3/4 times a week? (I am running out of towels!)

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My first time ever squirting/actually having an orgasm is when I have pregnant back in 2021. I believe it’s probably the hormones and being in tune with your body. I kept doing it to figure out how I was doing it😂😂and get a waterproof blanket/mattress protector, easier cleanups!

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Yes! Amen to this. Never knew I could do this and then bang pregnant, hello squirt life! Now iv had my baby, I'm lost to how it happened 🤣 not been able to do it since 🤷‍♀️🤣 xx

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Nope. Zero sex drive in pregnancy. Personally I think women who say they’re hornier during pregnancy are full of bs because your body is no longer ovulating.

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My sex drive has multiplied by 100 and it seems so much better than before I was pregnant , I haven’t squirted now or ever but I am scared to see what sex is gonna be like after I give birth if it’s this good now 😂

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I didn’t think squirting was a part of the orgasm? Pretty sure it’s weeing yourself 😅 I think during pregnancy because the baby is pressing on your bladder so much this can happen? Could be wrong 🤣 but I never squirted in my life so I dunno 🤣 but it’s defo a good thing if you have increased sex drive, mine went to 0, also to after pregnancy 😞

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Yes but it literally happened in the last week before I had her lol I was like wth lol

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Maybe others that have experienced it can back me up 😅, it's a different sensation to peeing and it doesn't smell like urine at all - it's a clear liquid, like water. I can pee before and after and still squirt so not sure it's necessarily linked to the bladder?

So interesting, but impossible to find any actual medical research on it!

At 25 weeks sex & masturbation is a great release for me personally and instantly stops any discomfort etc. Feel lucky for that!

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because you don't experience it it can't be true? 🙃

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The liquid projected is yes indeed produced in the kidneys and is mostly urine with other chemicals mixed in.

With the added pressure on the bladder and ureters, I’m sure that’s probably at least some part in the increased ability to squirt during orgasm.

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This literally just happened to me and I got so worried that my water broke!
I've never squirted before, and this wasn't really a squirt either rather than a large gush of fluid.
I'm hoping it is just due to increased hormones and discharge, but I'm keeping an eye on everything just in case

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