Hi! I can never orgasm from penetration alone… what sex toys do y’all use ? And what’s the difference between the different types ?
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Oh, lord. I bet my husband could write a dang novel on this topic alone! He's bought most of my toys. A pump up dildo, an ejaculating dildo, "bad dragon" dildos (mines a tenticle), regular silicone dildos, a rabbit. My favorite personally, that I bought myself is the wand. That thing is powerful, but more of a clitoral toy vs insertion. I'd probably suggest getting a rabbit if you're new to toys and work your way up. It will provide the insertion factor, plus the vibration for clitoral stimulation. You can also just visit a sex shop and speak with a worker. They know what to suggest depending on what works best for you and your body.

Majority of women don’t orgasm through just penetration (about 15-20% can) so no worries there.
As for toys, I’d recommend starting with a bullet or wand type toy to give you that clitoral stimulation. Plus they’re easy to use during sex, they’re smaller and can fit between bodies.
I sold adult toys for 15 years, I could do a whole presentation on this and answer lots of questions lol.
Rings are also good to try because again you get clitoral stimulation, your partner (assuming they have a penis) they will also vibrate so you both get pleasure from that. You can also use the ring for solo play or as a bullet by itself.
Those are usually my two recommendations for someone newer to toys and looking for external stimulation. And make sure to use lubricant with toys—and for sex-but with toys so there’s no discomfort from the friction.

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I never through penetration at all...hate it. Just stimulation. The rose is so good. Bullet is good as well..discreet. I like the quiet ones😉

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Personally I use a wand. It works wonders but sometimes I feel like I need something else.

The little sucky one!
I had my first orgasm at 36 with one!
I have EDS and it causes my nerve endings and blood vessels to be really deep, so it kinda sucks all the good stuff to the surface 😂😂😂

For clitoral stimulation you can't beat a mains powered wand.

Girl finally I found my people me and my husband have tons of toys. Me personally I love a good old fashioned magic wand for myself. I also have tried the womanizer aswell and really enjoy it. If we Purchase our favorite site is Adam and Eve they always got great deals but we recently purchased from pink Cheryl another site and they did a good job. My most recent toy purchase was a pink ice cream cone satisfyer and it’s a clot stimulator which is nice too. We have tons of other toys too but these are my recommendations for clit vibes

I use a combination of the rose vibrator and a dildo but i won't always use the dildo. The first time i used the rose i had an orgasm in literary 10 seconds. It was life changing and now I'll never use a different vibrator ever again.