I caught my husband watching porn…

Lol well I’m sure it was worse for you then him lol. He will be fine! Have you tried doing other things!? Trust I get it, even after my last it has been hard finding time but trying to have some kind of sexual contact helps

I haven’t, I just been so tired in general. We have a 2 year old also so I’m just so exhausted and touched out.

oh girl I’m In the same boat. We have a 5 year old, 3 year old, and 3 month old. We both are dragging but we do little things… lol a quicky when baby is sleeping (knowing I’m getting sleepy dick 🤣), a quick butt grab in the kitchen, and sometimes when I pump after I’m done I’ll wake him up and say let’s go. It’s not just being sleepy but also finding the time. For you it’s also the second baby pains. Our bodies stretch more and all systems seem to be doubled. I would just have a convo with him and see how he is feeling. It sounds like he understands since he isn’t complaining just ummm doing what he needs to do lol

I find out my boyfriend watched it once, I was upset but it is what it is. I feel you I’m only 26 weeks and I don’t really want sex I had to come to thought in my head that he isn’t looking at the girls… haha xx

I’d be bothered bc I’d expect him to come to me w Communication. You could try to give him hand jobs, blow jobs etc bc it’s not fair to him though in his mind even though he may not say it bc he doesn’t want to upset you. But I do not know what answer you are asking for here, if you say you’re fine with it and you are both ok w no sex… I’m confused.

We definitely communicate and he said he doesn’t want to press me to have sex because this pregnancy is hard on me. We’ve been together for 10 years we don’t need sex to feel connected and he agrees. I don’t care if he watches porn I mean go for it, doesn’t mean he doesn’t love me any less.

Please don’t feel bad that you’re “depriving” him of anything. If you don’t want to, you don’t want to, simple as that. Don’t let anyone tell you it’s not fair to him and you could “at least” do something else. No one is entitled to anything sexual from anyone, even in a relationship.

Let him sort himself out. Masturbation is perfectly normal and healthy but if the porn bothers you (as it does a lot of women) I would have a conversation with him about it.

I’m totally ok with it but it was awkward walking in on him. But exactly, he also understand that so it’s nice we’re on the same page.