My Fiance’s been watching porn.
I checked his phone a while after I got pregnant last year and I saw that he searched up stripchat. The night he looked it up was the night that me and him got into an argument and he tried to say he watched it cause he was mad. Which made no sense whatsoever but I didn’t mind at the time cause it was the first time i seen he watched it. I have sex with him everyday, even when I’m not feeling good to try to stop him from watching porn. So idk it’s giving very much sex addiction sicko. His 5 year old daughter came over last week and she was with me most the time upstairs cause she likes me a lot. According to the dates of when he watched porn, he watched it while i was watching her. Even on our good days he still watched porn. Even on easter when we were supposed to go to church he stayed home and watched it. He tried to delete his history as to where there was a huge gap from April 5th to April 10th where there was absolutely nothing to find. I took my ssa to google and looked at the history and it was all there. I also seen nudes in his phone and missing pieces of messages where he tried to make excuses for them but i’m not dumb. I’m just trying to make this all work for the baby that’s coming that’s all but everyday he shows me that I should just go or I’m just going to waste my time. Cause I don’t wanna be with a porn addict 🤮
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Ima make his wallpaper screenshots of him looking it up
Personally I believe if he’s gonna do it he’s gonna do it. Checking his phone and managing what he’s doing and making sure you give him sex just for him to go to porn anyway is useless. If he wants to watch it he’s going to. What’s the point getting worked up checking his phone and seeing all evidence just to stay with him anyway? Give him a boundary if he crosses it , leave
You’re right, It sucks.
If he’s got nudes in his phone then it’s more then just porn. I think your giving him sex everyday because your scared your going to lose him if you don’t
yeah he has telegram where he’s in a group that posts updates and stuff and they post porn sometimes to expose people and he tried to say it saved on his phone from telegram but i didn’t believe it cause if that was the truth he would’ve had thousands of videos and pictures saved from telegram
It isn't my intent to be argumentative here but you sound really judgemental and ignorant. Firstly not everyone watches porn. Some people are okay with their partners watching it and others aren't. I am one of the ones who aren't okay with it. While I agree that you can't force someone who also has it as an addiction to stop, if you aren't okay with it then that's completely okay and valid too. I personally have a lot of ptsd from that stuff and it has completely destroyed my functionability to this day. As a pregnant woman, we're more sensitive and if he's making her feel bad about it and herself, then yes she's gonna make a big deal of it. I agree that she should leave if he's not showing interest in changing or considering how she feels. I understand she's asking for advice and you have your own views and opinions, but don't put her down because you view things differently and your values don't align with hers. You don't have to be so rude about it either...
As for the person who posted this, feel free to dm me if you want. As someone who's been in your situation I completely understand and can provide you some support and a listening ear. It's a tough situation, I know, but make sure you make the right decision for yourself and your happiness
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