So my SO loves anal sex and I like it sometimes but he wants it more than I do. Last time which was last week I felt like I had to shit which I usually feel like that but this time I noticed afterwards that I did shit a little. My question is how do I know the difference between when I actually need to shit or not or how to make sure my bowels are empty before we start?
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I’I HATE anal it gives u constipation makes u wanna 💩 but u can’t it hurts like hell very uncomfortable u just haft to hope for the best u don’t 💩 urself lol

I usually use the bathroom right before and clean with wipes. Sometimes my bf is spontaneous which gives no time to prepare so I just hope for the best.. 😅 or suck his dick instead..

This isn’t about the poop but rather just anal… be ready for some arguments to come. Same thing happened to me, and I kid you not he will literally argue with me about not giving him any or enough: 1. I’m still figuring out my PP body 2. It’s my body, I have to work myself up/prepare myself to do that given the pain 3. If I say no, then don’t annoy me about it. My rebuttal to him is let me give you anal and you tell me how you feel. But I am not sure why he feels like he is obligated to receive it- SIKE
I also know when I’m not enjoying it as much as he is because I’ll keep checking the clock to see how long it’s been. It was 25-35 minutes last time. It didn’t use to take long and we do foreplay before so that it doesn’t but he gets overheated a lot and takes longer than I want him to sometimes.

Just hope for the best. Don’t do if your not feeling it though or tell him to stop when you’ve had enough

My best friend is gay and he said him and his partner use a douche which flushes them out, I've done it a few times but honestly I get no pleasure from it so its a no from me, I've tried multiple times to see if it changes the more you do it but nah! Don't mind a finger up there though 🤣

I also persuaded my ex partner to let me use a vibrator on him just so he could feel how it feels, not even 5 seconds he jumps up and says "I NEED A POO STOP" 🤣 well he never bugged me again after that haha

I have been trying to convince my husband to let me use a vibrator on him but he won’t cave.

This was a interesting post definitely learned a lot I didn’t know.