3 sum but not bi

Hi I’m poly. Don’t do it. If you are monogamous do not do poly. If you are bi curious this could be a safe way to experiment. But as a poly person you should not be in a position you’re not comfortable in. But just like having sex with a guy if you’re not ready you’re not. It’s your first time all over again! But now you have some experience on your side! Use it!

we’ve done alittle exploring baby steps but idk if we will ever fully go there but idk if it’s because we haven’t found the right person . The girls are so ready and would prob expect it first time we all hang out but it’s just so awkward and uncomfortable but the idea sounds nice 😍esp we want to get all the sensations we can’t get with just 1 person. The idea sounds great but actually doing it is a different story .

Oohh okay so if you like writing send flirty texts to the gal or gals. Get in to detail and description of exactly what you want to do. Create the plan for play an other day, and then when it’s time to play play, make sure to use all of your foreplay tools you have! But like if you’re not in to kink look at some of the pre scene set up things for kink. Safe words after play, it really translates well to experimenting in poly play too.
Be ready to communicate!
And if you are not whole don’t do relationship stuff! Make sure all parties involved know is this just sex? Is this long term just sex? Is this more relationship? Don’t be afraid to have these Convos! If they can’t be talked about don’t do them! But the planning on one day and the act on an other is a good way to do that!

yes we’ve done all this I keep saying it’s going to take time we just need to all spend more time together

🤷🏾‍♀️ bc I only touch and look

Just like your first time! Take your time!

If you’re monogamous don’t.

my husband and i are monogamous but before our baby we had many threesomes/ foursomes and our relationship is great. it’s all about boundaries, communication and HONESTY

yes after kids we want to have some fun because we don’t anymore lol we love the idea but putting into play is a different story lol maybe one day we will see

You know I can only tell you about my own experience with the same situation me and my ex husband had the same situation and we tried getting comfortable with them too and they were good women and we had our threesome but after the threesome he wanted to do it more than once it wasn’t one and let’s go back to having regular sex. He wanted to try more and more different things. He wanted to share me with other people he wanted to watch. He wanted to go to clubs where we could sleep with different people and before we had our threesome, he told me none of that was going to happen, but I can tell you this much when a man gets a taste of a certain kind of sex life and they like it the one and all the time and after a while it kind of beats down on your emotions and breaks you guys apart I think instead of doing a threesome you guys should if you’re religious go to couples counseling and I know it seems so horrible or if you’re not religious, go to a therapist and a couple therapist

You can also go to a sex therapist they’re more open, and they help with relationships and sexual fantasies, and help couples with their intimacy

My question is, where’d ya’ll find these interested girl friends on Amazon lol?

dating apps

their very nice and patience . They working with us say moving on our accord we all discussed rules expectations etc

That’s awesome. You might need to rip the bandaid off and just dive in! 😝

I’m so skeptical of dating apps, I just wanna kind of run into bi women that naturally click with me & my husband. It’s the Pisces in me lol

yes my hubby said just get a girl and do it all and get it over with but it’s not easy I’m just so use to being with my man my for years and it’s also tryna get comfortable wit the female

I’m curious which dating apps? If you’re okay to share. I’m new to this.

I’ve been on 3fun, bumble, taimi I love taimi it’s alot of girls on there looking for different things I also try to join fb groups as well . We about to have a girls night Saturday lingerie party

What part of it makes you uncomfortable though?

Like just, the first time jitters or something else (just curious)

something else. I think it’s the idea of me knowing they like girls and they into me lol so it’s the pressure so it’s like I feel they expect something everytime but I don’t wanna prolong things but I’m really just tryna vibe

I feel you. Understandable, just continue to be patient with yourself.