Sexual intercouse

Has anyone been having sex at 36 weeks ladies? Which sex style is everyone doing? I haven’t had sex in more than 8 weeks x

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Not had any in 2 weeks just haven't had any urge to. And it's uncomfortable to do it. I can't wait till after baby is out and we can go back to normal sex again...albeit after fully healed ofcourse 😌

We've been alright if we warm up with some hand foreplay and then go to doggy. Got to be a bit gentler than usual though as it's getting quite tender in there! But it's a nice stress relief and orgasms are supposedly good training for labour due to contracting/strengthening your uterus like a work out and is a good stress relief so hoping to carry on lol. Defo not as frequent as before but managing at least once a week x

Not as frequent as before. I mainly tick to laying on my side with him behind or upright as I'm very uncomfortable with most other positions.

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Antibiotics and breast milk.

Has anyone taken antibiotics and noticed that it has affected their breast milk? I have been on antibiotics for a week (4 a day) and every time my baby has breast milk she is immediately sick afterwards and cranky. (This was never an issue before being on antibiotics), so I have been pumping and pouring away my milk (which is soul destroying) until I finish the tablets. She has been having formula instead and isn’t being sick with that at all and seems much more settled.

Would it bother you? Hubby never finishes.

So my husband doesn't finish. Not for birth control but he just doesn't finish, he says he can go a really long time before actually finishing. He can finish as we have a child together.

It's never bothered me enough to cause serious problems in our relationship. Sometimes I wonder if I'm good enough in bed? He says he just gets tired. I've only ever been with two guys, my ex and hubby and my ex never had an issue with it. Hubby says he likes it and we have a healthy sex life as in we have sex regularly.

Just wondered if it would bother you or am I overthinking it?

What age do babies start sleeping through the night??

I know it's different for everyone but what age did your baby start sleeping through?

Travel pram

Has anyone used any of these prams? I want to make sure the seat sits upright fully and isn’t really flimsy that my son could fall out but I know these are cheaper prams as I can’t afford a lot so keep looking on marketplace etc

Redkite push me explorer
Ickle bubba Aries
Zummi explorer
Kinderkraft trig
Kinderkraft nubi
Lejoux

AITA

So my due date is in 10 days but obvs we don’t know when the baby will actually come. Anyway, my SIL is also pregnant (after 10 years of infertility) and I am so happy for her when I found out because the doctors had said they may never conceive. So she has her gender reveal on the 26th of April (which would be almost 2 weeks after due date) in either case I wouldn’t feel comfortable attending while newly postpartum and with a newborn baby where there will be lots of people I don’t even know, I said to my husband he should go just with my daughter, which he agreed but mentioned she might feel a certain way. I mean she needs to sort of be understandable, I just don’t want to put my baby at risk, and after I gave birth last time I made myself very unwell thinking I’m okay to go out and about earlier than I should. On top of this, she shouldn’t feel a certain way because in our culture it is crucial for the mum and baby to not leave the house for 40 days, and she knows this. Anyway I don’t think I’m being an Asshole, I just don’t want to put my baby at risk and especially because people from my country don’t know boundaries when it comes to babies (kissing them, holding them, passing them around)

Nappies?

What nappies are u using size 1s ?
I’m finding pampers and Aldi are leaking most of the time 😢