Would it bother you? Hubby never finishes.

So my husband doesn't finish. Not for birth control but he just doesn't finish, he says he can go a really long time before actually finishing. He can finish as we have a child together.

It's never bothered me enough to cause serious problems in our relationship. Sometimes I wonder if I'm good enough in bed? He says he just gets tired. I've only ever been with two guys, my ex and hubby and my ex never had an issue with it. Hubby says he likes it and we have a healthy sex life as in we have sex regularly.

Just wondered if it would bother you or am I overthinking it?

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Occasionally my husband doesn’t finish as he gets tired, and it BOTHERS me so much. Makes me feel unattractive, not good enough, etc. & he is very reassuring and if/when that happens we usually do it later in the day or another day soon after and he will, and make it up to me. but that only happens once in a blue moon, I couldn’t imagine it happening often. I’m sorry you’re going through this :(

Sounds like this was even an issue 12 years ago? Maybe something medically going on?

Does he masturbate a lot? Sometimes they can only finish with their hand and they might have a bit of a iron grip. Or perhaps he's got an interest , kink or he's into a type of porn he's not opened up about yet and he needs that to finish. How open are you to talking about that sort of thing?

I’m an overthinker, if my husband takes longer than 10 minutes I’m upset 🥲 … i don’t think it would be anything to do with you so I hope you don’t over think!! its one of them things some guys do struggle with this. I wonder if self pleasure can affect it? Anyways I would talk with him to get some reassurance and also make sure he isn’t masterbating as that would be affecting your sex life ! That’s just my opinion , it may not be the right thing to say 😅🩷

You could have my problem lol

I never orgasm’d because my husband is done in a minute or less 😂😭🤷🏼‍♀️

I’ve been told men last long if they have it regularly

I would feel some type of way for sure. I had an ex that we would go for hours.. and I hated it. Turns out he watched alot of porn so it made it hard for him to get off fast. Thats just my experience. 🫠

One of my exes struggled with finishing due to his anti depressants. I always hated it.

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