Newbie

Hi all. I’ve just recently been diagnosed with BPD. I’m trying to figure it all out. I’m 36, have 2 kids and live in New Zealand. If anyone would like to be friends and maybe help me understand this a little more I’m happy to add anyone on snap or Insta. I don’t have Facebook.

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in our community

Remote work?

Does anyone know of any good remote jobs? I don’t want to put the full financial burden on my boyfriend, but I also don’t want to have my baby in daycare 5 days a week

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No sex

So I have worked out me and my
Boyfriend have only had sex 6 times this year. When I saw them numbers I was crying.

For the last 2 years our sex life is non existent unless I initiate. I got tired of doing it and makes me feel unwanted.

Now sex only happens if I have a breakdown about it or it’s a special occasion, but again I feel that’s him just trying to tick a box cause he knows I’ll be upset.

He knows exactly how I feel about it and he’s promised he will try harder but it NEVER happens. It’s more frustrating because he is affectionate with kissing cuddling and rubbing like we are going to have sex but it doesn’t happen.

So I literally have anxiety now when it does happen cause I think well when will be the next one, probably not another month or he’s just doing it for my benefit.

I cry pretty much weekly about it , I’m only 32 and I am feel a lot of resentment, hatred and just ignored.

I’ve always had a high labido and I’m 30 weeks pregnant and still want sex but I just feel devastated because I know once the baby is here it’ll NEVER happen.

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Some advice

I need to talk to someone having problems in my marriage don’t know what to do

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Married FTM in their twenties?!

Hi! I’m 10 weeks pregnant (with my first) and recently married, so I’m looking for friends in the same season… but I can’t seem to find ANYONE my age (20s)? I know nowadays it’s less popular to be married in your early twenties, but now I feel like the only one. 🥲 Anyone else?

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Texting group?

Who want to be in a texting group. No rules or anything just somewhere to vent and have fun

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Am I crazy debating coming off contraception?

I have very nearly 5 year old, an 11 month old and just don't feel done.. my first took 8momths to conceive and my 2nd took nearly 3 years to conceive so debating coming on contraception very soon!

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