Am I crazy debating coming off contraception?

I have very nearly 5 year old, an 11 month old and just don't feel done.. my first took 8momths to conceive and my 2nd took nearly 3 years to conceive so debating coming on contraception very soon!

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I recently discovered that my husband was cheating on me during my pregnancy and continued the affair after our baby was born. During the pregnancy he was cold, distant, and repeatedly told me he was “frustrated.” A few days after I gave birth, he told me he wasn’t happy and didn’t feel anything for me. I was heartbroken and scared.

I stayed with my parents for a few days, but he didn’t want me to return home quickly. When I eventually came back, I found messages confirming the affair. When I told my parents, they said they couldn’t help me and were more worried about social status than my wellbeing.

When I confronted my husband, he blamed me. He said it was my fault for not keeping him happy, that I should have expected it, and that he had done nothing wrong. He has shown no remorse, no apology, and he is still in contact with the other woman, who works with him and whom I knew professionally.

I feel trapped. I have no financial stability, no support from my family, and nowhere to go with my baby. Currently on maternity leave, I am worried if i go for a full time job then how will I look after my baby. All of my earnings have been invested into our property assets. I earn a basic wage, while he is carrying a significant amount of personal debt. However, he does have a stable job with a strong salary

I am trying to understand my options and find a way forward, but right now I feel overwhelmed and alone.

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I was just wondering if anyone knew of anywhere that my partner could talk to other first time / new dads.

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I got pregnant with my baby daddy 2 months of knowing him🙄 stupid Ik but anyways when I was pregnant he would always bring up his ex drunk and sober. He would tell me that if she wanted him back that he would leave me and our son and just a lot of stuff like that .Part of me understands where he is coming from since they were together since middle school (9 years together) I stay because I really do love him but now I resent him. I used 2 love 2 do stuff for him. Have his clothes ready for him in the morning, make him food and every night I would massage his whole body. When we fight he is real quick 2 want 2 leave me and usually I beg him 2 stay but a few days ago when we were fighting I told him how come with your ex you stayed even tho she put you thew a lot and you are so fast 2 want 2 leave me . He told me because his ex was the love of his life and I’m just someone he got pregnant and he would never love me like her . Now I don’t see the point of doing stuff for him anymore. What should I do?

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