How to have sex with a small penis

So, I was previously with a man who has a small penis. It was some of the best sex of my life but it was only once.

I've never been with anyone else as small as him and I really like him and the only problem I can see right now is how to be sexually satisfied long-term.

Please tell me what it's like and what I need to do to make sure we have a healthy sexual relationship.

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How small are we taking about ? There a diff fence between small penis and micro penis 😒 either way I won’t be able to deal with none of that sorry for me size matter . There is nothing you can really do but using sex toys with the size you like to compensate . And if the frustration becomes too big you don’t have to force yourself to stay in that cause having a bad sex life on the king run will make you miserable 😒

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* on the long run

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If it was the best sex of your life, what's the problem? Yes, it's small, but he must know how to use it - or at least knows how to please you in other ways. So I wouldn't worry too much about it.

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Apparently for us women all of the nerve endings etc are 4 inches in.....so if it's bigger than that you should be satisfied especially based off of your experience.

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How small?

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I never looked at it that way… the way you explained things it made the small & micro penis scenario more clearer. I used to just say small but I see your point of view. I’ve seen micro in my life as well and it was a total disappointment. Then I had small and it felt nice. I had medium and it felt great. I had big and it hurt. Therefore, I don’t like the big ones 🤣

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I'm a little confused, you said you previously had a small penis, is the person you're seeing now larger? Are you still in contact with the "smaller" fella? Are you in a new relationship? I guess I'm asking, what's the question exactly? How is sex long term physically with someone smaller? The same for however long you're together. Emotionally, if you aren't fully satisfied, then talk to him about other was to be pleased. What you define as a "healthy sexual relationship" can be different for another person.

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If it's just small and not micro positions help too. My husband is medium, Nicki Minaj ain't got nothing on my caboose so you can imagine we don't do certain moves. He did get me a swing for my birthday this year and we have been together 10 years. So you can ALWAYS explore and have new experiences in the bedroom outside of the common toys.

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scared of the monster 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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your picture has me rolling! 😂😂😂

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you joking 🫠😂💕

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Girl the only way you’re going to touch the nerve endings is with a dildo just make sure it’s not too thick in comparison and don’t do it all the time so you can still enjoy the satisfaction from sex with him.

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nah lol

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yes then that’s a micro penis it’s a disability 🤷‍♀️

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