So lonely

I have zero friends. Everyone is gone. Why does having a baby make everyone leave? But they be so excited and nice when ur pregnant ☹️

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Me too :/ it's hard

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I’m sorry to hear that . I’m here if you ever need to talk . It does be like that soon as the baby gets here the support disappears

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Have you tried to see if there’s a local moms group or PPD/TLC group that you can go to. Having a child changes the dynamics to your whole entire life and sometimes you have to expand your village. I moved 1hr away from family and they still have issues with driving to my house so my friends have become my family.

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I have bad social anxiety I like having my baby and baby daddy with me everywhere since my friends sent around now. But I will have to look for
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thank you so much🥺

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I hate it! Everything changes and making new friends are even harder cuz u have to trust them but be more cautious cuz u have a baby and people are crazy now days

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a girl that comes to my group brings her husband but he just sits in the lobby. Maybe your BD can do that until you get comfortable. Also sometimes your local library has events for babies check that out too.

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3867484009!! Text me!! Maybe we can bounce ideas on each other and talk about life!! ☺️☺️

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I’m gonna tell him! Thank you I always feel safer around him cuz I’m paranoid being alone cuz prone are crazy now days!

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I get it. I have a 4 year-old and 8 month old twins. I felt so vulnerable taking them out alone so I went with my husband and then once he went back to work I got the courage to do it myself. I eventually got tired of being in my house.

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I’m just now seeing ur number! I’ll text you in the morning 🥰🥰

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I had the problem with some friends just assuming I can’t do stuff anymore so I don’t get invited. If you are the one doing the inviting are they still MIA?

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So sorry. Everyone's back now that I'm pregnant again.

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Is it normal to crave my partners 🍆 in me but not sexually

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Sex life is 🫠

Im a little desperate already . Im not a huge fan on blowjobs but I’m doing it because I know he likes it . If he wants it in a car, during work meeting , on the balcony, on the beach everywhere I’m okay to do that . However, I’m not getting anything in return. I mean the last time he went down was more than 1.5 years ago . Okay, I was pregnant maybe he did not feel like doing it while I had a belly as he told me . , but I’m not pregnant already for awhile and I’m always telling him that I want him to go down and he is always having an excuse like “tomorrow “ etc . At the beginning it was funny and I was like okayyy but now it’s not as I’m not enjoying our sex in general . Like the process itself does not make me finish . As I’m breastfeeding and super dry down there and I’m always telling him to put lubricant as it’s hurting me . And sometimes it feels like I am begging for that as he is more comfortable without it , but damn IM NOT OKAY without it . So basically I do not remember when was the last time I have finished during sex . I understand that now with a baby it’s hard to fully enjoy it and have enough time for everything. But still . Just kiss me and put your dick inside me does not seems sexy . To be honest I understand why in marriage women does not want to have sex . Like I feel like it’s already work that I have to do not a pleasure. I’ve been telling him that but as I can see no changes applied 🫠

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Whyyy?

I get horny when my man isn’t around but when he’s around and in the mood I’m not. This last Thursday he made me squirt a lot for by birthday. We only get intimate like 2 times a month.

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Question about ejaculation

I tell my partner to wear a condom not only for protection but also so that there's no mess to clean up when I get up to use the toilet. Is this normal?
I ask because I now have the contraceptive pill but I still want him to wear a condom.

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Friend 🥺

Let’s skip to the good part and just be besties? Text, call, ft.. play dates or just simply hang out. Just want a genuine mommy friend. I’m in NW Indiana but we can be long distance besties tooooo.

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Friends!?😊

Hii there! Just a mom looking for some friends to talk to through out the days. I’m from Ohio but don’t mind long distance friends. Feel free to message me!

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