Friends

When you realise you actually haven't got one friend you can call up just to have bants/gossip/bitch too. Like i know and hang out with people on a social thing, but not actually a friend who I can be ME too, yunno? Someone when I'm feeling lonely and need someone to talk to I can just pick up the phone and they are there. Seems people change when you have kids.

Absolutely no point to this post. Just lonely and in my feels 🥲

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Girl same lol it’s really upsetting to know that people who you’d break your back to see or make time for doesn’t have the same energy for you.

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I realised this when I was pregnant the only person I had was my mom 😐

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I've noticed since having my baby my "close" friends just don't get my life lol or are on the same page. Made some new mummy friends and I'm closer to them than I have been with people's I've known since I was 2....

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those people are the worst 😒 the amount of people i have cut off for the reason is a joke

that's so annoying. I'm sorry that happened to you 💜

same here. Mom friends have been a godsend, but they will never know me like how some of my old friends did and i fear no-one else will again

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Girl same
I had just cut off the 2 people I call friends
We grew up together and they do nothing for me but I do a lot for them.
None of them checked on me for weeks and called me up yesterday because she needed up. I said no and then I am mean😂
I am my only friend

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Feel free to message hun I totally get it u lose alot of mates wen u have kids them 1s that said they will be there for you and can't wait to meet bby etc and your babys grown n still not met them snm I know every1 has busy life's etc but still try send a message once in a while won't hurt.

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Same here Girl I had people i called close friends but after Baby everything changed! not sure I'm the problem or them 😅😅😅

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I feel the same. I feel so alone and unwanted. My inbox is open if u ever fancy a chat xxx

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Literally same! it's sad how lonely it can get.

The only difference is I lost my friends even my "best friend" when I gave birth 🥺
I find it so hard to make new friends, I have 'work friends' but nothing socially outside of work.

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Yeah I get this, crazy how motherhood changes everything x

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