Does anyone else ever feel like the โdisposableโ friend?
Like you show up, you care deeply, you try to be there for peopleโฆ but the moment you canโt give 100%, itโs like your value drops. Like youโre only needed when youโre strong, available, and pouring into everyone else. Iโm the kind of person who responds quickly and will continuously be there. I just feel like itโs not reciprocatedโฆ
I guess Iโm just wonderingโฆ how do you know the difference between outgrowing a friendship and just going through a rough spot?
Would love to hear from anyone whoโs felt this way ๐ค
Sad Relationship with my Mom
Hello ๐
I'm feeling so lonely lately being in a new country without any family. I reach out to my mom daily, but we haven't been close since I was in high school. She's not very involved in my life nor my son's (2yr). We lived under the same roof until a few months ago, but even then, she mostly kept her distance. My grandma is very much the same and bed bound. I don't know what I expected, but I am so sad about it. I wish I had a mom, aunt, older sister, or unrelated older woman friend to talk to. I see these relationships on TV and they make me so sad (and a bit jealous). Is anyone else in a similar situation?