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Do yall think 🤔 that texting other men/women online is consider cheating? Or do you think cheating is just physical and texting?

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Are they texting romantic/sexual texts?

I think if there is any connection that I believe I should be the only one supplying as his partner, sexual or emotional, yes, I consider it cheating. That’s my personal boundary.
Platonic texts, wouldn’t have you asking this.

Context matters.
If they’re sexual, explicit or pushing boundaries then yes. If they’re just friendly or having a chat, then absolutely fine. My partner is entitled to have female friends

If it is flirty or has romantic vibes then yes. Also any sexual content.

i mean i think we can all agree platonic chats with another female aren’t cheating but if it’s sexual how would it not be considered cheating .. also because what’s the point of sexual chats with another woman
i think anything being hidden from your partner, something you wouldn’t tell your partner or something you would feel guilty about doing or know is wrong … is cheating (with another person) lol

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