Where are my sober moms at? No 420 and no other drugs

A lot of the people on here say they are 420 friendly. Are there any moms on here that don't smoke weed and don't do any other drugs? Yes. Weed is a drug. It might not be as strong as some other drugs, but it is still a drug. I do not do any drugs and I do not have any addictions of any kind. I never have. It makes me upset when I find out that some people did that stuff while pregnant. I live in GA and almost everyone who lives around me apparently either smokes weed or does other drugs.

in our community

SEX AFTER BIRTH 🤦🏿‍♀️🤦🏿‍♀️

IM DUE APRIL SIX AND THIS MF ALREADY PICKING OUT CONDOMS!!
BTW HES ALREADY FUCKING OTHER WOMEN WE ARE POLY SO I DIDN'T THINK ABOUT SEX AFTER BIRTH
I PLAN ON DOING A VAGINAL BIRTH AND HE WAS LIKE WELL MY OTHER BABY MOMS DIDN'T TAKE LONG TO HEAL🤦🏿‍♀️🤦🏿‍♀️
IM LIKE IM NOT RISKING IT JUST CAUSE YOU WANT TO. HE GOT UPSET WITH ME CAUSE IM LIKE WE WON'T BE DOING ANYTHING FOR A WHILE. TBH NOW I JUST DON'T WANT HIM TOUCHING ME IN GENERAL CAUSE HE ISN'T WORRIED ABOUT MY HEALTH MENTALLY OR PHYSICALLY JUST HIS 1MIN NUT!!
LIKE IM SO OVER IT.

Going over £100k

Hey all,

I might unexpectedly go over the £100k mark this year, which would be a one off. (Work want to bit back my annual leave and I have about 150 days, and hubby might be made redundant so redundancy payment would push him over).

I know about the bits you can do to bring the taxable income down (pension, charity) but I was wondering if anyone knows what happens if you do go over towards the end of the tax year? Do you have to pay the money back that you’ve had that year? Will they refuse you the benefit in the next year even though it was a one off?

Thanks in advance for the advice x

Second child

I genuinely fear I wouldn’t be able to afford a second child. Which makes me so sad because I’d love another and more important I’d love a sibling for my current child.
but I don’t agree with parents who have children or multiple Knowing they can’t afford them and don’t ever do anything about it to try and change it.
I had to hand my notice into work at the end of my maternity leave, due to no nursery spaces and no one to have my son so that’s left me unemployed. Although I know when he starts pre school I’ll be able to get a job and make money again, I just fear in the years to come if I had another I couldn’t afford them both.
Living is so expensive now and I just worry.

Am I being logical? Or do I go ahead with my second child and figure it all out and know everything always works out somehow. Is it selfish of me to want another one when I have this worry in the back of my mind?

Gift for husband

Has anyone bought their husband/partner a gift to say thank you for their support during pregnancy? Looking for ideas!

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No one told me pregnancy would feel this lonely…

I’m 21 and currently 21weeks pregnant. It was a big shock finding out as I was told I couldn’t have kids due to pcos and not ovulating.

I was always the loud and out going party girl but now everything’s changed…. My friends have stopped inviting me out as I guess it’s not that much fun hanging out with a pregnant girl and even when I have managed to make some plans with a couple friends I’m so anxious they’ll find me boring now that I back out.

My partner works 5days a week morning till late evening and on his days of he wants to see his friends sometimes which obviously I want as it’s good he’s keeping his social life but I’m also kind of jealous. Is anyone else feeling like this ? I just feel like I’m not experiencing the magical pregnancy everyone describes….