What am I doing wrong in these convos

It hurts because I can’t even have a normal convo with this guy. Everything turns into me being the bad guy and I’m literally doing everything alone. I just want to feel okay.

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Going over £100k

Hey all,

I might unexpectedly go over the £100k mark this year, which would be a one off. (Work want to bit back my annual leave and I have about 150 days, and hubby might be made redundant so redundancy payment would push him over).

I know about the bits you can do to bring the taxable income down (pension, charity) but I was wondering if anyone knows what happens if you do go over towards the end of the tax year? Do you have to pay the money back that you’ve had that year? Will they refuse you the benefit in the next year even though it was a one off?

Thanks in advance for the advice x

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Where are my sober moms at? No 420 and no other drugs

A lot of the people on here say they are 420 friendly. Are there any moms on here that don't smoke weed and don't do any other drugs? Yes. Weed is a drug. It might not be as strong as some other drugs, but it is still a drug. I do not do any drugs and I do not have any addictions of any kind. I never have. It makes me upset when I find out that some people did that stuff while pregnant. I live in GA and almost everyone who lives around me apparently either smokes weed or does other drugs.

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I need help

Hi everyone I was just told that my husband and I will be getting divorced. We have 16 month old. I don’t know where to start or what to do.

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Am I wrong

Sometimes I wanna tell my fiance to go eat out someone else since I'm tired or go have intercourse with someone else wrong for that🤔

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Strep

How can I prevent passing Strep on to my 13mo when I am her primary carer whilst Daddy is at work?! 😣😣

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Gambling help

So my partner has admitted he has a gambling problem and we are currently awaiting counciling for him (its been 2 weeks already since we asked for help 😒)
Just wondering if anyone who's been in this situation has any advice?
Hes spending around £200 a week.
Its hugely damaging us as we are constantly in debt.
I know the first step is admitting it which he has and he wants help but while waiting for the help what are we went to do?
Ive gotten angry and shouted and its not helping so i just feel lost.
Ive never had an addiction so i just dont understand how powerful it is.

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