Hey.
I'm new here just joined, here's my story. On Friday 25th last week I found out baby had no fluid (amniotic fluid). But still had a heartbeat. The next day (26th) I decided I didn't want to risk it so I decided to go have a private and managed to get a heartbeat bear for my baby and I'm so so thankful I did because on Tuesday 29th I had a NHS scan and was no heartbeat 💔. My baby had passed at 13 weeks 4 days. Even after all that heartache, I had to go back the next day for a repeat scan jsut to confirm baby had no heartbeat and talk through my options. Because this was my second misscarrage in a row I really didn't want to wait for it to happen naturally because it caused me so much pain. So I went down the surgery route. So I was admitted to the hospital on Thursday the 31st, at 11 am. It kept getting pushed back and making me feel so shit cause I didn't want to be there anyway. At 7:30 they took me up for surgery. But I ended up not having it cause of some emergency. By this point I was in so much pain cause they had put this pill in my uterus to contract and dilate my cervix. I was basically in slow labour for 8 hours. At 9:30 they finally took me up again and I had the surgery. When I woke up I was heartbroken because before this day it didn't seem real I had lost my baby. I wasn't in pain, I wasn't bleeding it made no sense why this happened to me again. I'm a healthy 19 year old but can't seem to carry children.
Sorry for the long post but wanted to share my recent experience. Currently on bed rest recovering.
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I am so so sorry this has happened to you 😢. It’s hard to find the right words to say, just know you are not alone.
I have had 3 miscarriages, now receiving support for a 4th pregnancy. It does not mean you can’t carry children, I promise your time will come whether that means with help, or maybe not. Look into the current legislation around MC, up until recently you had to have 3 before you qualified for support but I know that’s due to change to 2 (if not already).
Do that in time of course, when you are ready. For now I understand you will need to process your loss and grieve.
Sending you my love whilst you recover and heal x x x
before I lost the baby I had an emergency scan for bleeding and they told me I should have been out on progesterone I think it's called as soon as I got pregnant because I had previously had a miscarriage, so I think in my area is now if you have one or more. But I feel like my doctors forgot about me in a way because I'm rhesus negative I should have had an anti d injection after the bleedings I had during pregnancy. But they didn't give me that I didn't no about it until it was 2 late. I'm so heartbroken and your right there's no words for it it's horrible. I'm glad Ur getting support now and hope this pregnancy goes well for you x
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