Feeding routine now weaning

I’m really struggling to find a routine when it comes to feeding, both bottle and food now we’re blw. When it was just bottles we had it pretty much nailed, one every three hours, but now we seem to be all over the place.
Sometimes he’ll want more milk, less milk, more food, less food and it’s so hard to predict and don’t seem to have any routine with times 🙈

We’ll be coming up to 7 months soon so would be interested to hear anyone’s routine 🥰

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So we just do breakfast and tea time and Milk between. I crush a rusk up and add his milk for breakfast and for tea he has what I have just blended (only delicate stuff for his belly)

I think you just have to go with it my baby is the same as described. We do breakfast at 8 sometimes he wants it sometimes he doesn't. He doesn't eat a lot though, then we do a snack around 3 and then dinner at 7ish. Somedays he has all his milk and somedays he doesn't. Still wakes twice in the night to feed and sometimes he only has half his first feed sometimes he has all of it. He is fed exclusively breastmilk via bottles.

(I wouldn't recommend a rusk they are full of sugar and palm oil)

We try and do a feed 30-40 minutes after waking, breakfast 30-40 minutes after that and then try and do lunch/snack and tea in 2nd and 3rd wake windows. LO never let us do 1 meal a day as he’d steal from our plates 😂 we’re almost 7 months. Milk is breast and it depends on his mood, he went almost 6 hours without a feed yesterday as he was too distracted, which is crazy as we don’t normally even go 6 hours overnight!

My LO is 7 months old. I give him a bottle when he wakes up, then do breakfast at about 8-9 and he has about 3-4 oz to go to sleep. He has a snack at about 12-1 when I have my dinner which is usually crisp or a strawberry. Then he has his tea about 5-5.30 and has a full pouch and then has about 4-5 oz bottle about 6-6.30 to go tp sleep. He has his last bottle about 8.30 xx

My LO will be 7 months next week too. We do breastfeeding first thing in the morning. It depends on what time my LO will wake up, its usually around 7-8 am.
8.30- breakfast its either pureed fruit/baby porridge or yogurt
Around 10-11 am-first bottle of 7 oz of formula.
1-2 pm- 2nd bottle
4-5 pm 3rd bottle
6 pm- pureed veg
7-8 pm last bottle
I am weaning now in BF and will only do it first thing in the morning as my boobies are ready to erupt. Im waiting for it to settle down so i can replace it with a bottle soon. And that would be the end of my BF journey. ❤️

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Hour night wakes and 5am get up

Can anyone shed some light as to why on earth my child doesn’t want to sleep??? My eyeballs are bleeding!!

Never been a good sleeper, but the problems always changing. He’s nearly 9 months old.

Beginning of the month he dropped to 2 naps. We could put him to bed at 7pm and he’d get up for the day at 6am, with multiple wake ups every 2/3 hours.

Now we put him down at 7pm, he can do a good 4/5 hour stretch, but come 1/2am he’s up every hour then getting up for the day at 5am. This then completely messes up the day because I can’t keep him awake long enough to even get to 7pm, let alone later.

He has 2 naps, roughly about 1hr10 each but it changed based on when he wakes and trying to get him to a reasonable bed time.

What could be the reason for this? 6am is fine, but 5am is not 😩😩

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I think its fair

Me and my partner agreed to sleep in 1 day of the weekend.
He doesn't find it fair to look after both kids (my 4 year old isnt his) while i sleep so he looks after the baby while i sleep and my toddlers at his dads and ill look after both the next day.
Straightaway it was pretty unfair as i let him sleep in until he wakes up 10-12
He wakes me up when baby starts fussing because he wants milk (doesnt need it)
I cant pump as i dont supply enough.
So i get woken at 9/9:30 to feed baby then i get him sleep then theres no point sleeping in as my toddlers being dropped off.
I also find it unfair that i get both kids to sleep most night, i get my toddler to sleep everyday hes home (4/5days) and i get my baby to sleep most nights with the exception of maybe twice a month as his dad struggless then about 95% of his thru the day naps.
I have also been unwell for a few months (tumor scare) and am waiting 18 weeks to see a specialist so im obviously petrified for that, so unbelievably tired and alot of aches and pains, specifically these pounding headaches ive been having.
After i had been up til 11:30 getting both kids to sleep lastnight and my partner falling asleep at 10 then him ignoring the baby cries all morning until my toddler woke up im fed up slammed to door and rold him not to expect to sleep in unless he gets the baby to sleep the night b4.
I keep having issues with him not feeling the wet from baby being sick or weeing himself or being able to smell it do about 98% of the time hes given to me i have to clean him up n change him.
Including at night, we agreed my partner would change nappies (1 a night at 5am) while i feed (2,4,5,6:30) but every night when i get him hes pissed through and my partner gets annoyed when i wake him up n moan about it.
Then the morning after hes annoyed at how much washing there is (thats his job) and moans about how often i change myself (baby constantly shits thru and sicks on me) and baby
Honestly im just so tired all the time

Help meeee

!!All advice welcome!! My 5 month old (nearly 6mo) is just not sleeping . Not for naps and not at night . She can’t connect her cycles . We started sleep regression at 3 months but in like how is this nearly been going on for a further 3 months . Like surely not . She has 10 min naps in crib ( which take so much effort ) and maybe 20/30 min naps in my arms/pushchair . She wakes minimum every hour at night with guaranteed false start 20 mins in . I combo feed. I breastfeed her until almost asleep then place her in the next to me crib give her the pacifier and put my hand on her cheek/face for 20 seconds and she drifts off . It’s not really getting her to sleep that’s the issue it’s she just won’t stay asleep . She doesn’t even need to feed much at night usually 1-2 breastfeeds . The rest is comfort wakes needing her pacifier or my hand on her cheek . I’ve looked into sleep associations and independent sleep and I broke the feed to sleep association and rocking and do bedside comforting instead for most wakes which has now lead to my hand being a sleep association on her face . I’m just so exhausted my husband is working mon-fri 9-9 and it’s just me . I haven’t had more than 4 hours in a row since her birth . I can’t get anything done during the day . She is so clingy and cries if I leave room /put her down etc. I love her so much but we both need rest . If anyone has any tips or a routine that could help PLEASE tell me I’ll try anything 🥲❤️❤️

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