Mamas with depression, anxiety, and other mental health disorders

Trying for a baby

So I’ve been trying for another baby for 2 months after I miscarried in the beginning of July and it hasn’t happened yet and I’m starting to feel like I’m broken and that something is wrong with me I’m so disappointed in myself every time I see the negative pregnancy test like I have kids already but I never expected for it to take me a little bit to get pregnant again and it’s making me think that maybe I can’t have anymore

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A healthy 30 year old has about 20% chance to conceive each month.

A health woman in her early to mid twenties has about a 25% chance to conceive each month.

Give your body and yourself patience. If you want to be proactive, get a thorough semen analysis and see a fertility specialist to do some initial testing/checks that your obgyn might not do. It’s never too early to see a specialist and get some peace of mind.

It will happen even if your broken I’m 35 with one ovary pregnant with second child I didnt get pregnant within 10 years of first baby when I lost my ovary last year I just knew that was probably it but here we are don’t think about it just enjoy your partner and like previous comment go seek medical advice if it go on for years your just 2 months in don’t stress if it’s meant it will happen

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