Miscarriage fears

Hi ladies - I think I saw someone post a % rate of miscarriage in here recently and I wondered if you wouldn’t mind sharing it again as I’d like to reassure myself of the odds against having another miscarriage.
We’ve recently gone for an early scan and seen the heartbreak flickering away I think I’m around roughly 8 weeks, but I still can’t relax and enjoy this time. so wondering if we’ve seen a heartbeat does the Likelihood of miscarrying lessen now we’ve seen that?
Thanks and sorry! Feeling so overwhelmed!

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https://datayze.com/miscarriage-chart

I think you can set a filter with key words so posts containing them don’t crop up on your feed. Might be worth a go! X

I’ve also read that once a heartbeat is detected the risk of miscarriage drops significantly.

Don’t be sorry, pregnancy after loss is bloody hard, I hope you’re doing ok. Look after yourself x

Try to listen to pregnancy meditation and affirmation. Don’t think negative and invite unnecessary stress. Baby can feel your stress. Then you’re really manifesting what you don’t want
I have a background “everything will be ok”
I’m on my phone so much cause if every little thing. Come up I go to google and it’s very nice to pick up my phone and see an “everything will be ok” affirmation

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