Sorry TMI

it sounds like you’re having sex with the wrong person 😬

damn 😅

Hi I’m in the same boat and I’m absolutely in love with my husband and find him extremely attractive so I don’t think it necessarily means you shouldn’t be together. it could be hormones or stress or depression. Everyone goes through phases where their libido dips and spikes.

This book the woman code talks about how diet and excersize affect the hormones which affect libido and energy

Yeah i think I hit that stage once. Because it wasn’t enjoyable. It seemed like the time I was about to. It just left lol. But I’ve learnt what I like and we talk during sex also what he likes and what I like

i didn’t mean that offensive in any way by the way!! but i feel that if you’re with the right person, sex will always just feel right- unless i’ve just landed lucky in that sense 😅
i think not craving it is normal, sometimes i just don’t want to- it’s normal to have spells like that but to want it to be over, is something else i think. does your partner know what you like? because that’s soooo important! if they don’t, tell / show them 😋

lol I didn’t get offended I just laughed really hard because I’m like …maybe you’re right ? 😂 idk most of the time I just get annoyed by him because he’s not romantic but he will always make sure to get his 😂 like dang dude sometimes I just want a hug but no you wanna be grabbing up on me all the time and talking dirty ALL THE TIME. Like jeez I wanna feel more than just like a sex doll 🥲

oh good! i have to make sure 😅 it’s so hard when you’re with someone who isn’t romantic but always make sure they get theirs 🙄 it’s like we need pleasure too!! i think because most men don’t need foreplay or anything, they can get hard at any time for anyone but women are more romantic and need that foreplay to get us in the mood. i don’t think they realise that we aren’t just sex machines 🫠
make sure this man knows how you’re feeling girl, and if he doesn’t want to step up, there’s plenty more men who will 😋