Heartbroken

My baby dad out drinking with girls the night before I have to get induced, in less than 12 hours time. Worst part is that he planned it. We don’t live together and he left me this morning and said to chill out with my dog and he will come to hospital with me tomorrow. I had to find out through a girls instagram story 💔 dancing drunk having a great time! he won’t be coming to the birth now smelling of alcohol. Really hope he feels like shit tomorrow, feel like I’ve dodged a bullet with this one don’t care what anyone says just needed a rant 😌🤷🏼‍♀️

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Wow what an immature thing to do. Try and focus on yourself and the journey ahead with your new bubba. Good luck, you’ve got this with or without him xxx

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thank you so much ! I’ve got this ❤️

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Mama, you are strong! The only thing that matters is you and your baby! Don't let someone like him be in the way of you bringing into the world your baby! Be positive! You got this, and you totallydeservebetter! ❤️

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You are a queen and shame on him for jeopardizing witnessing the miracle that is you giving birth! Stay strong warrior mama, I'm rooting for you!

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thank you guys so much! You’re words really do mean a lot ❤️❤️ Feel awful on my baby 😢 it’s my first time I don’t know what I’m doing but one thing I do know is I don’t want my baby seeing and sensing that his mummy is always upset because of his dads disappointing ways ! If he can do it to me in pregnancy I don’t doubt he can do the same to his child …

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It sounds like you really love that baby and he's really lucky to have you as his mommy 💗

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of course I’d do anything for him 💙

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I wouldn’t even call him a man at this point unfortunately! I didn’t reply to the story because they actually already know exactly who he is and how close I am to giving birth ! They didn’t say a word to me but I bet you they’ll all be gossiping amongst themselves 😒 he knows I know them and very well indeed so it’s not like he even cares I was going to find out! He was hanging around them like flies to horse shit 😳😅 and I hate people like that when I’m on a night out. I can’t wait to meet my baby now, I’m ok about it all! I was worried at first because it all happened so last I only found out on Wednesday that I’d be induced Sunday, I get super overwhelmed but thankfully the midwife’s put my mind at ease and now I’m just excited to meet him , still a little nervous but just thinking about the moment I’ll finally have him in my arms

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You got this beautiful goof luck 💓 Just focus on you n your baby xxxxxxxxx

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it’s awful my blood has actually never boiled so much I’m really trying not to stress my baby out any more than he is 😒 and that’s so bad! Why can’t they just step up ?! I was with him since 15 my first boyfriend and only person I trusted and then I got pregnant and it’s true what they say you never know what someone’s truly like until you have a baby with them!
Thank you I’ll be okay just got to stay as calm as possible and try not to think about it now, I did get some rest but not as much as I could of I’ll try and sleep in hospital today but i doubt it! He knew what this would do to me he hardly ever goes out I’m just so confused!! Why do they do it when you’re most vulnerable 😩 my mum and sister will be there every step of the way like they have the whole pregnancy I’m lucky to have such amazing family

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thank you babes ❤️

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Good luck, my lovely! Please be strong and let us know later how did it go! We are praying for you! ❤️

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What a pathetic man!
All I can say - you have got this…Stay strong for your baby. 🥰

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Message me if u need to talk xxxxx

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