Breastfeeding and pacifier

Hi moms!
Anyone exclusive breastfeeding and baby using a pacifier? Do they latch correctly?

Asking because my baby (almost 3 months) never liked the pacifier, he would spit it out if we try to give it to him, and I tried several brands/models specific for breastfeed babies, until last night that before going to sleep, and after eating for 30 minutes (he was not eating at the end just using me as a pacifier) I tried and gave him one and he did not spit it. But I took it out after a minute because I freaked out and thought 'what if he doesn't latch after?!' (I know it is ridiculous šŸ˜… but I could not help it)

Any experience to share? Any benefit of using it? He falls asleep on his own without the need of one.
Not sure if maybe in the future it can help him the sleep. I would rather him using a pacifier that using his finger if I can.

Thanks for sharing any experience!! :)

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I don't exclusively breastfeed. I breastfeed my LO in the morning and she gets a bottle the rest of the day, so take what I say however you wish: even after gettinf her back to the breast from exclusively pumping for a month, she latched just fine. She never really took a pacifier (I feel like she hated it if she sucked on it for so long and nothing came out šŸ˜‚). I know there is information out there that talks about nipple confusion but I personally didn't find that to be the case. She knew what gave her food and what didn't.

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I use to exclusively bf but then I had to start supplementing and now I bf all day and give formula only at night and I pump during the night but my baby has used a paci since he was a couple weeks old, now he’s about to be 4 months and he’s able to latch on to anything with no problem but also remember every baby is different

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Also mine use to spit out his paci all the time until I tried the tommee tippee ultra light paci (seen on tiktok) and he took it right away and didn’t spit it out like the other ones

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I EBF and have been using mam pacifiers since she was a couple of weeks old and never had any latch issues! She needs it for car rides and going out, i didnt want her to fully rely on me for a pacifier🤣

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My Lc told us a pacifier shouldn’t cause nipple confusion after 3-4 weeks of nursing or if they’ve established a good latch already. Mine still doesn’t like one though lol

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My ebf baby took a paci in the hospital and she never had any trouble latching , we used nano bebe now we use bibs , they told me get a nipple shaped paci not the flat ones, nuk has a line that’s for breastfed babies they have paci s and bottles human nipple shaped

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This is my 2nd time EBF. My babe started teething early (like 6w), so we got some Bibs pacifiers. He usually only uses them while in his bassinet or carrier, sometimes if we're holding him during a rough night.

It hasn't changed his latch at all and we continue to have success with EBF. If anything, he's a bit awkward with the paci and often just chews on it for pain relief. The experience with my first was very similar, she just started teething later.

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I combo bottle and breastfeed. My baby took a pacifier the first couple weeks but after he latched he doesn't take it anymore. Spits it out like you mentioned. I notice if he goes long stretches with bottles that he doesn't latch as well for a couple breastfeeding sessions. This is getting better though. And what I do when his latch shifts is I just switch up positions until we get there ( side lying is usually best when this is happening bc it seems easier for him)

My lo uses his fingers and arms. I read this is a good thing bc they'll always have those available

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Thanks so much everyone!!! ā¤ļøā¤ļø This helps me relax more about the paci and offering it again if I see he wants one.
Interesting about the teething, haven't thought about that.

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