Any other single mamas
This is my first baby and the father was here at the beginning we’ve been on and off for four years. He was a absolute love of my life and I was his.
And then he reconnected with somebody from high school, and completely changed into someone I no longer recognize
I got pregnant and we got back together and he was living with me the first few weeks
And he was great constantly there, if I was ever throwing up, she would be there with me rubbing my back, bring me water, flushing the toilet for me, and even cleaning out my bucket. Brought me cravings everything.
And now he’s living with her and in a relationship with her, he was cheating on me during my first trimester meanwhile, still being great during my first trimester, and it’s destroyed me because of how much I love him
And she knew I was pregnant and that we were back together. I even messaged her not on anything negative just me wanting the truth basically like woman to woman she didn’t even read my message and just automatically blocked me which showed me she knew exactly what she was doing .
And I’m 30 weeks about to bring this baby. We both wanted into the world and just a thought going through my head that now whatever he has our daughter she’s going to be there as well since they live together.
And if I knew that things were going to go like this with him I don’t know if I would’ve even had the baby because this is not at all. I wanted my first pregnancy to go let alone with the type of guy I no longer recognize and it’s just become the most devastating pregnancy .
If it makes it harder because he texts me and calls me every day like nothing ever happened. This was the guy that told me how much he loved me and showed me how much he loved me and then completely changed overnight and it’s made my pregnancy the most, sad depressing thing .
And as much as I want to just move on, it’s like I physically can’t like I hate him so much for everything he’s done because of her but that part of me loves him so much because how can somebody just change so quickly….
And now that all goes through my head is I now have to raise my daughter with somebody who destroyed me..
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Oh love I'm so sorry you have to go through this. The hurt is heavy I hope you have support and people who genuinely love you... because thus guy seems confused like who does that to someone u "love" u just don't he's being so selfish. It sucks how he wants you for himself but also just dips and hurts u like this. It's even harder pregnant... ugh ik the emotions. Once your daughter is born try ur best to devote only to her and I'd shut out this man n make him pay child support.. work out a way he can see her if he wants without this other *bish*(usually don't hate on women but she's NOT a girls girl, she knows what she is doing) I would not get him to sign on the birth certificate coz it makes it more difficult for u to travel or have freedom, give her your last name. As hard as it may be take control of the situation. As hard as it may be, you should still let him try to be a father, but he needs to know being inconsistent is worse that not being there at all... I have many girlfriends to testify.
Cont. What he did is not right or ok, and he needs to stop playing games and I hope you can really move forward from this and always remember your worth and that you deserve happiness, loyalty and true love! And I know its hard now coz u have a kid with him but there are good men out there that I'd they truly care will treat your daughter as their own. I'm sorry you're going through this! I hope you'll power through this! Remember your power too and who you are and im sending love your way! No woman should have to go through this shit, men piss me off sometimes, but you deserve sooo much better!
Also if you ever need to vent or need a friend you can feel free to message me always
also this!!!!
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