First visit- dating hopefully was off

Hi all! I had my first appointment today based off a suspected LMP of 7/7 (thinking I was around 9 weeks) and turns out they dated me at 5wk5days and were not able to detect a heartbeat via transvag US. The ultrasound tech kept saying things like “I think this couuuuuld be a baby” but then the OB said he was able to identify a fetal pole. Has this happened to anyone else? They also said that it should be nothing to worry about and I’m scheduled again in 2 weeks for another ultrasound but I’m just feeling pretty discouraged.

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Same thing happened to me because I got a positive 10 days after I had sex. But that was way too soon. Basing it off of my last period put me around 5 weeks so by the time I got my first sonogram I should have been around 7 weeks. I had to go twice because all they could see was the sac and nothing in it. Sometimes the LMP isn’t the best way to guage because it really has nothing to do with when our babies were actually conceived

And everything is ok for you now after the second visit?? Thanks for sharing!

Commenting in case any updates lol... I see my OB next week but I thought I was 9 weeks. However, ended up in the ER yesterday and their measurements reflected 7 weeks. But that's also like 10 days after sex when I got my positive so I'm over here trying to figure out if I really messed up my math or if the baby is smaller than they should be lol

the math is hard girl hahah we’re going back 9/25 to re confirm so hopefully they’ll see some growth 🤞🏼 hoping the same for you! Hope all is well following your ER visit

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Hi everyone! I gave birth via emergency c section 9 months ago as my baby boy was measuring big, he pooped inside so there was risk of him inhaling it and I wasn’t progressing past 3cm to have a natural birth and now I’m currently 20 weeks pregnant with my 2nd baby. I’m having a consultation on Tuesday to talk about birth options and to have any questions answered but I don’t know what to ask. I feel like it would be safer having a c section again but at the same time I don’t want a c section. Does anyone have any question ideas I could ask or any advice/stories of similar situations. Tia

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Side affects, long term dependency, supply shortages and costs, regaining the weight back as soon as you get off them.. all that ASIDE how do people not see just from a zoomed out perspective how crazy it is. I can’t imagine being someone facing food insecurity in an underdeveloped country and watching westerners give themselves daily jabs so they can lose weight while still eating a calorie surplus/ crappy foods. It’s giving hunger games when district 12 Katniss finds out at the party at the capital that people eat and then take a pill to make themselves sick so they can 🤮 and eat some more. These ads running ozempic everywhere are disgusting, and then getting amazing athletes like Serena Williams to push them talking bout “i’ve never been healthier” girl you were an OLYMPIC athlete wym??

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Has anyone had a planned c section and been home the same day?

Getting pregnant after c section

When did you get pregnant again after a c section? Our plan was always to have 2 under 2 but that is now out the window because I had an emergency section. I know they say 18 months and we will be sticking to it (as much as I don’t want to) but I’m curious how quickly you got pregnant after your section?

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Tips for babies with wind issues

My 5 week old has always had issues bringing up all his wind. When he’s laying on his back, he’s always grunting in pain to the point he cries and wakes himself up.

Spoke with a qualified physio who’s also qualified in baby massage and she said try concentric circles on baby. Small circles with a little pressure on their right (your left when facing you) from the bottom of their tummy up to their ribs and then going to the other side and doing the same. Then do the usual leg exercises with them (bicycle kicks, air squats, rotating them side to side etc)

I’ve also found this really helps doing it on my LBs back. I either use my thumb or two fingers when he’s up against me. I do both sides from bottom to top in small circles. He moves around and makes the grunting noises when I first do it but burps come out and after about 4/5 times he stops moving around or grunting at all and it’s meant he’s actually slept on his back and not had to cosleep!