I want a job and money

Lately I’ve been thinking about leaving my boyfriend because I don’t feel appreciated or loved anymore. We just had a really bad fight last night and it made me question everything I have done for him. I’m a SAHM with no job, no money, no car and nowhere else to go but I want to leave him and forget him. I wish I can get a job and save up but I don’t trust him with my kids. I just feel stuck and I don’t know what to do but I don’t wanna do this anymore I can’t do this anymore. Ik the smart thing would be to just get up and leave obviously but I feel like I can’t because I have nothing

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it’s not that easy, I don’t have a car and although I have family, they not that involved to help me

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thank you so much, I will try to do my research

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Look into a work from home job, maybe that can help. You’ll be wrong make your own money & still be at home with your kids. I agree looking into online support groups for mothers looking for housing etc! Good luck I hope everything works out. You’re a lot stronger than you know!

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Me and my partner argued all the time and it always got so extremely bad but I always brought up me leaving because I wasn’t afraid to leave. Even tho my family isn’t involved, they always allowed me to live with them till I can get my shit together and I’m actually living with my father now with my baby and my partner. The only thing I can say is that my partner wanted to be involved, wanted the relationship to work and wanted to be a father so he changed his ways. It took plenty of arguments and me bringing up counseling and what not but eventually things worked out. We quarrel but (knock on wood) we haven’t had a terrible argument in a long while. I think you guys should seek counseling first before completely giving up to help your relationship and you baby’s childhood.

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Because I think what you’re experiencing is under appreciation and he may also feel that way because his job is to provide. Both scenarios of being a SAHM and being a provider are hard and stressful. Men will never understand what woman go through as unfortunate as it sounds but, if he’s not willing to understand and doesn’t want to help the relationship work then it’s time to seek other options. However, if he wants things to work and he wants to be a father and he loves you unconditionally then I’d seek help by doing couples counseling.

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