I’m married but we recently moved into our home and expecting another child. It’s been pretty hectic moving and adapting to a new environment but my partner hasn’t been the most loving towards me. It’s been weeks since we had sex and before that it was even longer. I love my spouse but it just feels like they’re with me out of duty/obligation and not for any other reason
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Was in the same boat . My hubs always affirmed me but no action 🥴. I begin to feel like he wasn’t attracted to me pregnant which made it even harder to feel confident in my body (esp at the end when u are huge). It gets better! 6 weeks postpartum he’s beg to initiate again. Also having an honest conversation about how no action makes you feel is helpful. Doing things that still make you feel sexy regardless of him was helpful to me. I’d still wear cute/sexy dresses around the house and do my makeup . It’s not easy tho … it gets better once you have the baby . Sometimes I wonder if it’s in the back of their mind that there’s a baby in there. My husband acted like it could hurt them regardless of the fact it doesn’t . I think he just didn’t want to do it bc there’s a very obvious baby bump esp in the end!
we did have a discussion about it. That was our dilemma and also making time because our child sleeps with us still. He’s trying to be more touchy to let me know he still finds me attractive. I think it will get better once baby arrives in January
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