Single mums - how do you sleep well alone?

I’m newly out on my own with my babies and the anxiety and fear of someone breaking in or something is seriously large. I want to do my best to protect my babies. Do you have any tips?

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I know it’s tough but if we can give birth everything else we can tear it apart… Take one day at a time.
Even my LO is with me all the time

it’s okay to cry it out, write everything down helps get over it. plan things as per baby’s nap
Is your family supportive?

it was my first night alone last night, I have a ring doorbell (out of charge of course) and did leave landing light on. Thank god my baby needs fan sounds on cause it blocked out any old house noises and creaks I usually would have freaked out about. I was so scared but when it came down to it, I was a happy just to have both my babies sleeping in the same room as me. I think I’ll invest in some ring alarms also, might ward off some folk. I have read that fences also lower the risk. It’s just so scary; I know it could happen with a partner in the house too but at least one of you could run off and protect the kids while the other fights

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