Only fans on bf cash app

Okay ladies so I found something on my boyfriends phone yesterday so I confronted him he kept denying it but low and behold found a bunch of cash outs for only fans I’m at the point I think I should leave but is this a valid reason to leave stating a child is involved? please help a mama out cause I’m in tears

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He will prob never change & always just denying it to you if you feel you should leave then go do it for your happiness you deserve better

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Agreed ^

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thank you lovely

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You have every right to leave. This is disrespectful toward you and your child. He is paying to look at explicit content. It’s definitely up to you but in my opinion this is a big issue for me. The fact that he is denying it as well when there is proof of transaction, that’s a big red flag.
Be strong mama 💗

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thank you I’m trying lost my dad now this shit I just I don’t even know where my head is at anymore honestly. I feel so lost alone and depressed

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As someone you had had to deal with this (not only fans but p*rn hub and others). After 5 years and he denied or saying his friends did it (I knew was a lie) his internet history and our bank account proved it was him time and time again.
Leave now. No matter how many time he says he will stop (change) he won’t. He will just find a different way to hide it from you (until you find that way). In the end you will feel stupid for believing him.
I got to the point that I mentally and physically and emotionally checked out. I stopped going home started staying with friends (unintentionally) would disappear on weekends without a word. I always went were I didn’t have cell service. Until one day I came home and he was in a mood and wanted to fight (with words) that I screamed I want a divorce. He sh*t up and I called my grandpa and asked for his help and getting all of my stuff out of the house in one trip (2 trucks, 2 trailer, an suv & my car).
Please for your own mental health don’t stay

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I didn’t have children with him. My girls came after him.

Now is the time you think about your baby and ask yourself is that something you want your child walking in on.

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To me only fans is porn. And if my partner were to develop an addiction to either I wouldn't leave, but that is something we would have to address. I find such addictions to be disgusting and unacceptable. As long as he is willing to acknowledged that and get help I'd support him through the process.

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nah it’s cheating 😅

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Boyfriend, you aren’t married. I’d be done.

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