Back to back miscarriages!😔

I deleted this app after my second miscarriage last year! And now hoping to get some light by my sharing my grief, I’m honestly struggling everyday and seems like my relationship is falling a apart! And I really don’t have any friends around since I just moved here last year, and I live in an older neighborhood. So, anyone out here to go out and just be a friend.

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Hi. I've felt the pain of a miscarriage and I'm so sorry for your loss. But don't think just because they're angel babies that you're not still a mom. I love near Eisenhower academy if you ever need a friend

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Hi, thank you. I don’t know the area, and I live in Minooka. It’s always a constant fight in my head that no one think you are a mom since they never came out to this world.

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Hey mama. I feel your sorrow. I see your grief and I offer an ear, even a shoulder. I had 9 miscarriages from the time I was 24 until I was 34. I gave up all hope. I moved on with my life and accepted that motherhood wasn’t in my fated design.

And then….. as my life fell apart, as my mental health spiraled, my heart was shattered as I left an abusive marriage……… the universe sent me my daughter. I am here to tell you these things are possible. I would get so hurt and angry when people would say that to me, or tell me it would happen when the time was right. Well the time wasn’t even remotely right but Tempest saved my life.

Keep your heart open. Talk to your angel babies. And please give yourself some grace. I’d love to chat sometime and get coffee or something.

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Also I’m in Channahon. We are practically neighbors!

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