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Incognito Only! 👻

Maybe Im just venting, I would like to hear your thoughts… long read.

In 2020 one of my work colleagues became a close friend, she told me EVERYTHING. I told her very personal things as well. We hung out the ENTIRE year, even before we always took breaks at work and hungout after. When we went back to work at the end of the year she got a new job at a better makeup counter (MAC) and started to treat everyone else like we were less than. For one not everyone was always nice but sone were and I also kind of messed up a little… one of our coworkers who cared about her noticed and then asked what was wrong, everyday she would ask me and O would tell “my friend” they are concerned about you… She never took the time to say anything but I told her they were pressing me asking if she needed help with anything after meeting her daughter. I ended up saying shes just going through a hard time (I only told my longterm coworker her mom possibly had cancer) I went to my friend and apologized for it I just wanted her to get help and understand that she is cared for and I get it if she doesn’t ever want to talk to them but it was alot trying to cover for her and as much as I said shes fine our coworker wanted to know if she needed any help with anything she needed. Anyways… she thought I was being too firm with her daughter one day but I know I wasnt and didn’t apologize (her daughter was comfortable enough to “play”/slap people in the face) and I felt like I was coming in as a father figure, other people were around when I was being firm btw. And the guys she brought around her daughter were fSoo we haven’t talked since then Nov . I just saw she had a baby around the same time as me and I kind of want to reach out because she was such a good friend to have. I really haven’t felt as connected and happy with a friend who is a woman. She j
Had a baby around the same time as me, i didnt know until now and i want to reach out, maybe shes changed and not for the better.