Am I reading too far into it???

I am 21, married and have a 8 month old. I am bisexual, my husband knew that before we got together and even enjoyed some of the benefits that sometimes come with it. I'm sorry but I say all that to say, I CRAVE the intimacy of a woman but I respect my friendship. I have this lesbian friend/coworker and I tell her a lot about my struggles in life but also in my marriage. There's moments where I get the vibe that she's flirting with me I'm just not sure if I'm crazy or not. Today we got on the subject of sex and I mentioned the fact that I'm more of a pillow princess, she kinda smirked and said yeah ik. Idk what it was but something in me got a lil turned on by the look on her face, i feel like i shouldn't feel this way but she's really my type😍✨ Am I reading too far into it??



*To make this clear I AM NOT CHEATING on my husband, he is ok with it since we're in an open marriage

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I mean if your husband is cool with it go for it! Lol I would have asked like her like how you know I’m a pillow princess? And just kinda go from there, have fun🤪
I guess not everyone understands the concept of an *open marriage*

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Since some people are being disrespectful, here's the perspective of a poly family:
If you would rather have your friendship then I would have a conversation with her and be upfront about how her comment made you feel and that you're flattered but would rather not. My best friend and I had the same talk years ago and now we both agree that even though we had feelings at one time we're glad that we didn't pursue them because we definitely would not have worked out long term 🤣 Open and honest communication is always key in all relationships we have be it romantic, sexual, platonic, familial, etc. If you talk about it and agree to let something grow then that's 100% your choice and I'm sure you and your husband have discussed the logistics with that and your family (ex: we aren't adding any other partners until the baby is speaking). I don't think you're reading too far into it 😁💕 and definitely don't feel shamed by someone who spelled Alexander with a K 💀🤣

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if "lust is lust" then why are you in an LGBT group when you're married? Just saying, it goes both ways. Your comment is rude, unhelpful, and uncalled for. Just because someone's relationship looks different than yours doesn't mean they should "give up." That's just the honest truth 😁

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