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September 2023 Babies 🇺🇸

Having his ex around my child

I feel very defeated and idk what to do. So basically long story short….my now ex/baby daddy has cheated on me with his first baby mama my entire pregnancy. He started staying with her back in May bc his dad kicked him out and he was unable to stay with me bc of my parents living situation currently which is who I stay with. Once he started staying there things got weird with him and my intuition started kicking in and I found a lot of things out and he has been cheating. It’s a lot more but fast forward to now, our “relationship” has been hell throughout my whole pregnancy and we were supposed to get a place together but he bailed on me and chose his loyalty to his baby mama and told her things I have said about her and she doesn’t want me around their kid which means we can’t live together. So I have potentially found a place to move to but I haven’t told him that bc I went everything to fall in place and work out and he is so mean and negative towards me I don’t want him to speak negativity over good things happening. So he is still staying with her and my due date is Monday….now he’s talking about how my baby will have to go over there if he wants to see her and it has ALWAYS been made clear that no matter what, he’d have to be out of there by the time baby gets here or have something figured out especially since this girl has said I’m not allowed around her child and even told my ex that she wishes I wasn’t pregnant. I don’t want my baby around her ever and he is adamantly telling me that he is going to bring my baby there and he is not having my back and not respecting me. I feel so hurt and defeated and I don’t know what to do to prevent this.

Any suggestions? Any advice?