My husband and I have been together for 3 years. The only positions we've done are doggy, reverse cowgirl and laying on our side. Common denominator- I never see his face. I have felt used, disconnected and ugly. I've tried explaining a few times that maybe we should switch it up but it never happens. On top of that there's no foreplay. He doesn't give head either. And just recently started fingering the correct way to finish me off.. idk I just feel used and disconnected. Don't know what more to do. I hate feeling like this
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Have you told him how you feel about it? Have you tried to initiate something different?

My husband was like this before we got married. I ended up being straight up with him and telling him basically our sex wasn’t very satisfying for me and it made me feel used. Then expressed some ways that would make me feel more connected and the fact that sex was a two way street and we also needed to make sure I got mine too! Our sex life is definitely better now than it was then.
yes I have, still nothing