Long Haul Flights 2nd Trimester

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Has anyone got any tips for flying long haul while pregnant? So far had a low rush pregnancy and everything’s been fine but just thought I’d check to see if anyone’s got any tips for longer flights! Also if anyone’s flown with TUI do you need a fit to fly letter for 2nd trimester? Just been told I do but everything online says that I don’t!

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I flew at 27/28 weeks and it’s up to the airline I messed up and flew back needing a fit to fly letter. I wore a baggy tee and no one asked anything 🙈 I’ve got some varicose veins in my leg so wore long compression socks /tights although they weren’t comfortable.. and was only a short flight

Hey lovely, I’ve just been to cypurs with tui and I few at 16 weeks, didn’t need a fit to fly, I just checked with my midwife and asked if I needed to do anything, just drink plenty of water and walk around as much as you can, if it long flight get some compression socks xx

Thank you guys!! Panicking now as I asked my GP and she said that she couldn’t advise me but I have low Papp-A so not sure if that changes anything!

I flew when I was 8 weeks for work and didn’t have a choice and little one was okay but as this is like 9hr flight thought I’d double check!

I flew 26-28 weeks pregnant long haul and took a fit to fly even though Emirates don’t need one until 29 weeks. Trust me when I say I looked passed 29 weeks even at 26 😂
My tips are:
Take a small compact fan for your handbag
Take your own large refillable water bottle
Walk around regularly
Wear the compression socks
Not so much for the flight but I contacted my hotel in advance to check out their pillow menu and they had a pregnancy pillow set up on arrival 😀

Also, I don’t know which cabin you are flying in but if economy I read a girl’s comment who took a pillow case and put her cardigan in it to make a pillow so she didn’t have to carry it around the airport etc 👍

Each airline has their own rules about how many weeks before they want a fit to fly cert. Definitely check with your airline.

TUI have said on their website you’re fine until 28 weeks but I rung them and the guy said I need a letter but I don’t think he was really listening on the phone, I think he just heard pregnant and flying and that was that 😂

I flew 9h at 14-16 weeks and it was fine, just lots of peeing!

I did UK to Australia at 16.5wks home at 20wks with my first and was also low PAPP-A. Make sure you wear compression socks and walk around the plane every so often to keep the blood flowing.

I flew from England to Canada (8 hours) when I was 32 weeks, I just stayed hydrated, wore compression socks and walked up and down every hour. I hid my bump with a hoodie to prevent questions by immigration because my midwife said they don’t do fit to flys anymore! No questions asked by the staff on the plane! X

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Ok so for starters i know some of you are going to say omg omg omg super controlling omg leave omg. No im not doing that. Im happy he finally admitted his wrong doing and taking accountability for it but id like to know the deeper reason, the what the f has him thinking like this reason, the personality trait reason. He’s obviously scared I’m going to leave him; so much so that he’s doing this dumb shit to prevent it. Past trauma? What do y’all think I can do to get him to see I’m not going anywhere? I’m consistent already, I married him, we have a baby. He really is the love of my life. I have never loved another man like this before.. but this shit is for the birds and he thinks he’s keeping me doing this but in actuality it’s making me lose respect and detach.

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So this child is three months old and she isn’t being fed from 10pm till 6/7 am idk if this is normal or safe and it’s been like this since 2 months i believe as she won’t wake her for feeds she goes to the pub drinking most nights with her baby and her baby has already been in hospital with a very low temperature bc she was outside but as soon as she was in a warm car she warmed up and doctors said she was fine she lets cats play with her bouncers toys that go over her and doesn’t strap her in she is cold from what i’ve heard from other family members and they’ve tried to warm her hands and she’s wet herself at my parents and she hasn’t had a spare vest to put on her and i offered her a blanket as she didn’t have one and she declined and she won’t listen to anyone about it she’s already left the baby with my parents for the night to go out drinking and personally i couldn’t leave my three month old because my parents said she just cried and im really unsure whether to report her or not and her house smells of dog wee/poo as she’s never home to look after them and that’s not safe for the baby i understand being lonely but she doesn’t need to go to the pub every night her friends could
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to hers or her she could go to a cafe that has closed doors not sat outside a cold pub and it’s a bit of a rough pub in my opinion

my parents are concerned btw but they say i shouldn’t report her as it’s not fair but i feel how the baby is treated isn’t fair

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Partner works incredibly long hours, how much do they help out?

I'm struggling. Have been for a while. I've had one break from parenting my daughter, that was for 3 hours in December when I left her with her dad.

She's 14 months old and I'm just tired. I've done every night by myself. He's out of bed at 4am and doesn't get home until 7-9pm. He drives for work, very physically tiring.
On the weekends he was doing 6 days, one weekend day off, but now has both off.

He doesn't sit on the floor and play with her, he doesn't read to her because he says she doesn't have the patience.
He will pick her up and hold her whilst he's cooking.

Recently I've been "snappy" with him.
He got back from the mechanic last weekend, she was getting onto the sofa and he put his headphones on and started to watch Netflix on his phone.
The same day I told him I was going to run her bath and to watch her whilst she was still eating, he fell asleep on the sofa.

Today he went to football after going shopping, so was out 1-3 and then from 4-8.
He got back and I was snappy.

"I don't get why you're so snappy with me"

I said - Probably because I haven't had a break since December.

"Do you think I don't know you haven't had a break. I haven't had a break", "I just won't go to work, I'll sit at home all day".

Then "do you think I like not having a connection to my child"... But that's on him? He never sits to play with her. He "doesn't see the point". He's stated that this age is boring to him.

Since she's been born, he has been to a friend's once a month. Football - He stopped going for 7months, but has been the last two weekends.

Are these not breaks?

He does do the washing/washing up/cooking/vacuuming when I haven't had a chance to; but I'm the one in charge of feeding her, naps/bedtime, teeth brushing, hair brushing, baths, dressing her, making sure she has the right shoes, appointments etc. Everything falls on me.

If your partner works ridiculously long hours, how much do they look after your child? Do you ever get a break?