Nursery wanting to speak to my health visitor

I picked my LG up today from nursery and her carer has asked if they can speak to my health visitor, they haven't said why and I'm just curious if anyone has any ideas as to why.

My LG has just turned 3 in August and not speaking much, she can say around 20 words and she's not fond of the word no so she can have a tantrum when she's told no if this sheds anymore light on the situation

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@Reena no it was at hand over and she asked as my LG was trying to run off

I'd definitely ask why. Hopefully whatever it is, will be to support you/your daughter

I do know my health visitor says they visit the nursery at 3 years old as my son is 2 so she told me for the 3 review because he goes nursery they will be going to the nursery - so she told me if they ask next year that’s why. So I would double check maybe it’s to do the 3 year review xx

I would just ask them why. If she isn't speaking much it might be to check what support the health visitor is putting in place so they can sort a plan out form there and also I guess same sort of thing if it's for behaviour. I don't think they'd be overly concerned about tantrums at 3 years old though unless there was also other things going on but I'd just ask why they're wanting to speak with the health visitor when you next see them. It can't be anything too concerning otherwise they be wanting to speak to a social worker instead sp don't get worried or stressed about it x

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