5hr drive to Cornwall

We’re looking to go away for the first time in a couple of weeks and usually go to Cornwall. I’m a little nervous about driving so far with a 12 week old. Has anyone else done it and any tips?

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Yes i did at 6 weeks to isle of wight.it was great. It gave me confidence that i can go out and enjoy with my little one. Change diaper and feed thats it

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She slept most of the journey

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how long did you drive before breaks? Every couple of hours?

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Oh wow, thanks Caitlin! That does reassure me, and I’m so impressed you did it at 3 weeks!!!!

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I did a 4 hour drive with my 11 week old yesterday. I fed and changed before we left and planned to stop as and when needed, he slept for the whole journey so just fed and changed when I got there 😊 we also have the mirror on the head rest so I could check he was alright whilst driving

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I just did a three hour trip, we stopped at about halfway just so I could put him in pram to stretch out, give him a change and some food. I was by myself so nervous about going but he slept the whole time! Have a great time x

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every 3-4 hours.

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It took us 13 hours Edinburgh to Cornwall when our LO was 7 weeks. We stopped 3 times, each stop half an hour to change and feed. She hated the car before but slept the whole way. Obvious things but feeding right before you leave, she loves the Lamaze toys (octopus specifically is great) for keeping her occupied. Also one of us had to sit next to her for if she woke up right before the next service station to soothe her until we got there for feeding. I was expecting chaos but I think babies must like the motorway drive, she slept so well x

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I'm the same as Caitlin. Took mine at 3 weeks old to visit family. We are near Notts so think it's more like 6 hours. We stopped 3 times but we would have anyway and either I fed him or my partner would from expressed milk in a bottle. Normally we'd have swapped driving but I'd had a c section.

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I believe guidelines are to stop every two hours and take them out their car seat for at least 15 mins so a good opportunity to feed and change

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I did Leeds to Cornwall last month with my then 7week old, the journey down I was super nervous and stopped every hour and half, woke her up for feeds and a nappy change so the journey ended up being 10 hours…

The drive back we only stopped when she woke up, so ended up being only 7/8 hours to get back home.

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For a journey that length I’d say one quick stop at a services, and one nicer stop where you can get lunch or have a little walk. Don’t know where you are coming from but Darts Farm is nice

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Thank you all!! This is the reassurance I needed!! 😊

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