25 Week Midwife Appointment

I have my 25 week midwife appointment this week. I’m conscious I always go a bit mind blank when I walk in. What kind of questions are people asking their midwives at this stage?
I want to ask her about cord clamping and breastfeeding but I genuinely am unsure if I’m not asking enough when I have her!
Please let me know what you’re asking.

Thanks ladies 🤍

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If you have questions i would ask them,
All my appointments at the end they have asked me if i have any Qs - personally havent had anything to ask so far but if i did i would take the opportunity whilst you are there - its what they are there for🥰

I tend to write down questions in my phone as and when i think of them and then look at it when i see her as i forget stuff. She will answer anything you have on your mind so maybe write them down :) I was asking things about birth tbh and breastfeeding xxx

Lol I'm like this -thank God my husband comes in with me and takes in all the information for me I kinda switch off (although I dont mean to I just get overwhelmed easily).

I would second writing things down before you go and if you forget you can always ring them or theres loads of online midwifes that can answer your questions- I would recommend Tommy's website they are amazing and you can ring, whattsapp/text (I think) or email any general questions 🙂 xx

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